Some thoughts on Morality and Altruism:

Every once in a while I come across someone claiming that nobody is truly altruistic, and that people only ever appear to do good with selfish motives. Also, I sometimes come across people (often who are occultists) who claim that there is no good or bad, right or wrong, and that people who seek to follow light are just fooling themselves. Hence, I have wanted to write a few words in response to these claims, as well as make some other points related to them.

The Tao Te Ching and natural morality:

I have read a number of spiritual classics over the years, and one of my favourites is the Tao Te Ching, which has as much to say about politics as it does about religion, and as much about society at large as it does about the individual. I will here quote a passage (Verse 381) which I find quite relevant to conversations about morality:

You can readily recognise,
The highest virtuousness
Because it never places itself on display. You can readily recognise
The lowest virtuousness
Because it is always announcing itself.

The highest virtue
Quietly serves universal needs.
The lowest virtue
Actively strives for personal success.
The highest morality serves common needs. The lowest morality is self-serving.

True benevolence
Acts without intention.
But when rituals go unheeded,
They are enforced with rolled-up sleeves.

Failing the Tao (interpreted here as “the Great Integrity”), We resort to virtuousness.
Failing virtuousness,
We resort to moralising,

Failing moralising, we resort to dogma, The most superficial form
Of faith and loyalty,
And the nourishment for confusion.

Natural persons are attracted,
To substance rather than form,
To the nutritious fruit
Rather than the enticing flower,
To that which dwells deeply within, Rather than to that which clings Superficially to the surface

This passage tells us of four levels of morality, though I will add in a fifth which is below the four (that being the complete denial of all morality).

The lowest level of morality is where people do what they believe to be good out of fear of punishment. We are all well familiar with this level, as they are commonly used in curbing the bad behaviour of children, and it is also common in many religions. Many of us have been threatened

by parents or teachers of what will happen if we continue with bad behaviour, and therefore adjust our behaviour simply out of the desire to avoid an unpleasant outcome.

As we all know, many religions and cultures teach of some form of Divine justice, in which we must answer for our sins. Particularly in Christianity and Islam this is known to have taken quite an extreme form, with the threat of eternal damnation for all the unsaved. Hence, fear is and has always been a fundamental aspect of the orthodox/conservative forms of both of these faiths (though they are not necessarily alone in this regard).

Likewise, many religions and philosophical schools have taught the belief that all our actions have inescapable consequences: Karma. Hence, fear of karmic implications to ones actions is a central part of the worldview of many people in India, China, Tibet and south-east Asia, as well as some ancient Greek philosophical worldviews (and more).

The next level of morality is where people try and do the right thing out of desire for reward. One might say this is the mirror image of the fear of punishment in the first level. This seeking of rewards for good behaviour is again something many of us learn in childhood, and we often see our childish worldview mirrored in our approach to God. Hence, many people pray, offer worship, good deeds, attend a church or temple simply out of the desire for rewards, both in this life and the afterlife.

Hence, one can legitimately point out that in both the first and second level of morality there is selfish motivation for ones good deeds. One cannot claim to be truly altruistic if one is merely seeking to avoid punishment or gain rewards. Hence, some people have seized upon this and claimed that nobody is truly altruistic. However, as is often the case, this claim takes a legitimate point and then takes it too far.

Certainly at these lower levels we find much hypocrisy in the behaviour of those that outwardly espouse moral and ethical ideals. That is, it is amongst those that only do good to avoid punishment or seek reward that we find judgmental and derogative views of other people. The moraliser seeks to make him (or her) self superior to others, seemingly unaware that their true motives are on display for those who are sensitive to see2.

Above this level we find that repeated moral habits make a human being virtuous. That is, it begins to become natural and normal for someone to do good, to consider others, to be kind and to stand up for what their heart tells them is right. A virtuous person notes that there is an inherent logic in striving towards an altruistic live. It is only natural that hurting others hurts oneself, and helping others feels good. And yet, the virtuous person seeks to do good for its own sake. A virtuous person loves goodness.

This is something that can be hard for many people to accept, given the great suffering, injustices and hypocrisy that we see in the human kingdom. There are many people that have unfortunately become either extremely skeptical of this idea, or even openly hostile towards it (in the belief that all claims to natural morality are malicious fraud). However, I for one have come to believe that natural morality is not only possible, but inevitable in the evolution of life.

There comes a point at which someone has accepted the inevitability of the consequences of ones actions, accepting that one cannot hurt another without hurting oneself, and accepting that it is only through caring about others that one can truly succeed. There also come a point in all of our journeys in which we have an authentic taste of spiritual peace and long to live our whole life in harmony with that peace. Thus begins the desire to tear down the imaginary walls we construct in our minds between the sacred and the mundane. Once we have been stung by real divine peace, it is inevitable that we seek to offer our entire life and being to that peace.

There are many such experiences that can bring about this change in ones character. Sometimes it is something extreme such as a Near Death Experience, or extreme suffering from illness, addiction or loss. At other times it simply begins with a profound experience in some form of spiritual community. Whatever the cause, such events can bring about irreversible changes in the psyche that lead one to conclude that nothing else makes sense other than to live a moral life.

There can come a time in which it no longer requires effort or a choice to attempt to live a moral life. Whilst it may sound like a spiritual fantasy to some who have yet to encounter such things in their current earthly life, there comes a time in which the Divine light within us comes to dominate and direct our thinking, feeling and behaviour. At this point and beyond it is only natural that we consider others and offer kindness to others, regardless of the outcome.

From here one simply becomes one with Goodness. Free of ego, one allows the Divinity that they are to express through their body, mind and soul. Hence in the language of the text I quoted before, we live the Tao.

Perhaps an appropriate analogy would be that of romantic love. In a transactional relationship where a man and woman are only together for what they can get out of each other, each will seek to please the other only for what they hope to get back in return. By contrast, if someone is truly in love with someone then they will naturally seek to please them, simply because it is the nature of love. If you are truly in love with someone you just want to be with them, to see them happy, healthy and successful. If you are truly in love it is natural to want to serve another, without seeking a reward from it.

Another expression of love that many humans can relate to is that of a parent to a child (particularly young children). If you truly love your children it is only natural that you wish to help them in whatever way you can, regardless of whether you are acknowledged for it.

Of course, we all know that the lower aspect of the human being (the ego) wrecks havoc in all manner of relationships, from romantic partners to family, from work to society at large. In the ideal of true altruism we find the desire to be permanently free of unnecessary self-(ego)-created suffering, and be one with goodness.

There simply comes a time when one falls in love with goodness. One falls in love with Love.

Of course, it should be mentioned that these levels are not strictly separate, but rather they are essentially regions of a continuum of psychological and spiritual evolution. That is, the attempt to avoid punishment blends into the desire for rewards. There is no clear defining line between them. Likewise, from the desire for reward one progressively grows towards a natural morality.

It should also be mentioned that whilst I have so far discussed morality as a series of choices that one makes as one progresses (or regresses) in life, different people do seem to have natural predispositions towards different stages of this development. That is, there are many people who seem to be born with a deeply ingrown morality and sensitivity to the welfare of others. Likewise, there seem to be some people who don’t seem to care at all about others, and for whom discipline becomes essential to curb the ego’s capacity to create suffering for all.

Materialism and Western Civilisation’s current trajectory:

We may speculate about why some seem to be so naturally moral from birth. However, for the case of those who seem to lack these qualities, it is very helpful for ones family and wider community at large to have strong common values in place.

Prior to the last 50 years or so, Western civilisation was dominated by orthodox Christianity for the better part of 1500 years, and was thus saturated with the common belief of Divine punishment and reward (with the the odd saintly figure thrown in). Whilst there were many problems that came with this (which I have been trying to bring attention to), there were also some advantages. Common religious beliefs in a society provide a means of keeping people lower tendencies in check, and encouraging higher tendencies. Whilst there are many alternatives to orthodox Christianity which can fulfil this role, Western civilisation has now thrown the baby out with the bathwater and seems to be largely favouring materialism.

I have been quite clear that I have never been one to idolise the past (though I have had conversations where I have not been heard on this matter). However, I don’t believe we are necessarily heading in a positive trajectory currently. You might say that in some ways we have moved forward, in other ways backwards, and then also sideways.

What I believe humanity needs is common spiritual values. Obviously I don’t seek to reinstate the authority of the Christian Church, nor any other exclusive ideology. Rather, we need a truly universal spirituality which balances compassion to all with the need for personal responsibility and accountability. I believe this can be achieved by finding the highest common ground in a study of comparative religion, spirituality and philosophy, along with studying modern data from Near Death Experiences amongst other sources.

Before closing I must point out that there is also a level below the first: That being the complete rejection of morality. There are many people today that do not believe in any form of natural or divine justice, and believe they can seek their own gain at the expense of others without consequence.

In many cases this is simply the natural consequence of metaphysical naturalism (materialism); the complete rejection of spirituality, and the belief that reality is completely and absolutely physical. In some other cases there are those who do believe in spirituality, but somehow manage to find a way to convince themselves that they are on God’s side, or that a supernatural Universe is somehow morally neutral (see philosophical Satanism).

It is often those that have no morals that try the hardest to argue that nobody really has morals, or that those who think they do are just fooling themselves. In other cases, there are many people who are deeply hurt (for whatever reason) and now don’t trust anyone who appears (or claims) to be striving to live a good life.

I would respond that there is overwhelming evidence of the consequences of such a view. Our society (and history) is overflowing with examples of people who have sought to satiate the ego through relentless pursuit of pleasure, wealth and power. Every single time it results in tragedy, in avoidable suffering and often early death. Ego can never be satisfied, it is never enough. The nature of craving is that it comes from a feeling of lack and separateness. The more one craves the more desperate one becomes. Substance abuse is the perfect example of this. The more one consumes of a drug in the attempt to get high, the lower ones habitual state becomes, and the less the drug is able to generate an artificial high.

Obviously there are also a myriad of examples of people who outwardly profess a holy life but end up as hypocrites, desperately seeking to satisfy their base urges3. There is a tendency amongst some to attempt to use such examples as justification to give up all ideals, as if everyone who strives to better themselves is a hypocrite. In truth, such examples are reasons why we need ideals, why we need to try harder, and why we should pursue these ideals without judgment of others or showboating.

Reality is not morally neutral. Certainly the consequences for our actions aren’t always immediately apparent, and some people are blinded by their bias to the suffering they unnecessarily create (and also experience). Reality is spiritual in nature, and consequences naturally follow all of our actions. Life is designed to eventually teach us to choose what is good for its own sake, through the inherent logic and coherence of righteousness.

A personal note:

I would like to re-state something here that I have tried to make clear throughout my writings. Obviously in my writings I like to aspire towards high spiritual ideals. I would like to make it explicitly clear that I do not claim to have fully realised such ideals myself. Rather, it is only that I am aware of my desire towards such ideals, and I at least try to grow towards them.

Certainly I do not claim to be better than other people in such ways. Rather, I am painfully aware of my many shortcomings and the great number of significant mistakes I have made in my life. Hence, I am at least trying to evolve, to be more responsible, to attempt to be unbiased and objective, and to offer forgiveness and compassion to all.

The source of true happiness has never changed:

As human beings we cannot be satisfied by simply and only seeking sensory gratification, wealth and power. We are (and always have been) spiritual beings, and it is only in living in alignment with our Soul that we can find real, lasting happiness. There is no happiness without love, no success without kindness, no true wellbeing without compassion.

Everybody seeks happiness, whether they seek it inwardly or outwardly. Whilst there have been many examples of people seeking to live a holy life and failing, the evidence is abundantly clear that shallow materialism and hedonism cannot lead to anything other than failure, suffering and tragedy.

The way to find individual success and happiness is the same as the way to be responsible and is the same way to contribute to a better world. These are not competing desires, but rather different sides of the same light that calls us all.

Peace

1 The Tao Te Ching, Watkins, Translation and commentary by Ralph Alan Dale

2 That is, a tremendous amount of information is communicated via basic body language. The most significant of these is facial expressions, which openly displays much about what someone is thinking and feeling. Beyond this, many of us are sensitive to the higher dimensions of life, and “pick up” on things that we have no physical way of knowing. Of course great discretion and self- analysis is required to use such intuitions wisely, as the ego would love to simply believe everything it thinks is true. Hence, I recommend a balance of intuitive knowing and critical thinking.

3 I have written about Ravi Zacharias, who is an obvious example of this: https:// jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2020/12/28/my-thoughts-regarding-the-scandalous- revelations-about-ravi-zacharias/

You Cannot Please Everyone

You cannot please everyone all the time.  This is a truth so simple we may take it for granted, and perhaps think it is so obvious that it doesn’t need to be said.  However, sometimes we overlook the most obvious things simply for this reasons.

I obviously encourage radical kindness.  That is, I aspire towards high ideals of unconditional love towards all, though I recognise the challenges inherent in realising and applying this ideal in a human life.  However, I also think in many ways we should aspire towards a balance mindset.  Love, kindness and compassion need to be balanced with strength, responsibility, leadership, accountability, honesty and healthy self-control etc.

We might like to think that if only we are really nice to everyone that everyone will like us, and that we will have harmonious relationships and interactions with everyone.  However, life isn’t that simple.

The thing is that we human beings are complex and often fickle creatures.  We generally don’t realise how much of our behaviour is unconscious and conditioned, and how biased and narrow-minded we are.  We don’t realise how little we know, and we often underestimate how much others know.

In our earthly life we encounter a vast mixture of people, who are at different places in their life.  Some people are living in accordance with the highest expression of who they can be right now, and these people are generally easy to get along with and enjoyable to be around.  Many others are struggling with the great challenges of being human and navigating our world.  Some of these people are desperate for help from others, whilst others lash out at others and project their own inner turmoil onto those around them.  And then there are some which are a danger to others and themselves.  In the latter cases, there is often nothing we can do to avoid conflict with these people, and we need to accept the necessity of being strong and doing what is right and necessary in the moment, often for the safety and security of others and ourselves.

There are some cases whereby the only way to get along with someone is to agree with them.  Sometimes this can be largely inconsequential.  At other times remaining silent or agreeing with someone who is wrong can have significant consequences.  Hence, sometimes we have to just accept the conflict that follows from doing what is right.

The human race is a great mixture, largely in the slow process of evolution through the animal and intellectual levels, eventually growing into beings that operate from a spiritual understanding.  You may be the smartest person on the planet, but it must be accepted that there will be many people who will call you stupid if you openly share your knowledge when it is conflicts with their biases and prior assumptions.  You may be the kindest person on the planet, but you will be called weak, bad, dangerous and evil by people that only like those who share their own ideology.  A fully Divine being could appear on Earth and offer transcendental knowledge and love to all, and it would face denial, ridicule and condemnation by many.

Recognising all this however is not a reason not to try.  Rather, we must simply try our best and accept the consequences.  We must try to be kind and strong, compassionate and responsible, forgiving and honest, to listen to others and also show leadership.  We must try our best to share what we believe to be true and also to listen to others to see what we are still yet to learn.  And we must be willing at times to face ridicule and condemnation, as long as we have made the sincere effort to think, speak, write and act with the best of intentions.

Again, to restate, there are many serious issues that we face here on Earth that demand that good people speak up and act.  And yet, to do so means that we will (and do) face opposition.  This is unavoidable at this time, and we must make peace with it.

However, we must at least attempt to do so without viewing our adversaries as enemies.  That is, there are people and groups that we must speak up and act against.  However, we can do this without demonising them and holding contempt against them in our hearts.

It is common for human beings to see themselves as fighting for goodness, and to see any opponents as enemies of all that is good.  People on all sides of disputes (religious, philosophical, scientific, political etc.) do this, and it brings a great ugliness to such conversations.  We need to be able to have serious conversations about things that truly matter without resorting to demonising and dehumanising our opponents.

Even the most sick, deranged and mad human beings are still precious Souls that need compassion.  Even those that harm others themselves still need help.  We can at least attempt to insist upon consequences to actions and justice even whilst holding only compassion for all.  This must be our ideal, and we can grow in our capacity to realise this, one test after another.

So, you cannot please everyone all the time.  But, you can attempt to offer real transcendent love to all, even if it isn’t always recognised, welcomed and received by all.  But first one must discover such love within themselves.  It is all good and well to idealise such things, but to actually bring things into reality they must be experiential.

This is perhaps where I think much social justice fails in its ideals.  Many people speak of compassion and understanding, and yet have not found peace within themselves.  Firstly to find real peace within oneself is a rare find on this planet, and takes real commitment to honour and nurture.  Even more challenging is the capacity to remain centred in clarity and peace in difficult circumstances.  To remain in an inner state of love and strength whilst facing an adversary is a power very few have yet realised (and I do not claim to be amongst them).

Hence, to be able to help others and contribute towards improvement in our world at large, one must commit to a sincere attempt to cleanse oneself of arrogance, bias, bigotry and unforgiveness.  To truly help others we must have in ourselves a great spring of peace that is everflowing, and an intuitive connection to the great intelligence which feeds all life.

To these great ideals we must strive, and meet the demands of our world.

Peace

We don’t have to be identical to be equal:

I believe in the equality of the ultimate value of all human beings, and in fact, all things.  That is, in the essence of our being, all things are one and are thus of equal value.  However, it is self-evident that there are tremendous differences in the outward expression of different people, and different things in general.

There are many things that are quite obvious and common sense when considered, but are easily overlooked. Sometimes, the more obvious something is, the more easily it is overlooked.  That is, human beings often reach irrational conclusions on many topics, though the reality can be clearly seen when examined without bias.  In light of this, I state the following:

Recognising the equality of inherent worth of different people does not demand that they be seen as identical.

I doubt anyone reading this would disagree with this statement, and I could excuse some for questioning whether it even needs to be said.  However, there are so many examples whereby the above seems to be missed.

Equality of ultimate value and differences in individual expression:

There are clearly distinctly different levels of equality between different people.  If we were to look at four people in a community, one baker, one school teacher, one police officer and a doctor, you can easily understand how each of these people are equally contributing towards their society, but in different ways.  You could certainly frame a question about the level of specialist knowledge and skills required for the different jobs, but essentially they are all necessary and important[i].

However, if we compare a brain surgeon to an unemployed drug addict, they are clearly not equal in their individual expressions.  A brain surgeon is contributing enormously to the wellbeing of others in their community, vastly improving the quality of life of many, and actually saving the life of others.  An unemployed drug addict is generally a danger and burden to themselves, their family and friends, and to the wider community.

This should not however mean that we dehumanise those that suffer from substance abuse.  I have been there personally, and whilst I didn’t fall as far as some, I certainly was a shadow of the man I wanted to be.  We can recognise the inherent worth of each human being, whilst simultaneously recognising that some are expressing that inherent worth, whilst others are not.

Someone who struggles with substance abuse and cannot hold down a job (and thus lives on welfare and charity) is not living outwardly in according with their potential, and is not expressing their ultimate value.  Someone who serves the community and saves peoples lives on the other hand is living outwardly according to their potential, and is expressing their inner value in the world at large.

Demonstrating this principle to understand comparative religion:

I first started writing because I wanted to encourage tolerance and understanding between different religions.  However, I soon discovered that many – or even most – of the people arguing for pluralism were also arguing that the worlds religions were all equal and identical, and that it was only human misunderstanding that was making it seem otherwise.

The reality is that this view is untenable, as the facts simply do not support it[ii].  The truth is that whilst there are indeed largely universal overlapping features of spirituality and religion, the world’s faiths are almost always heavily colored by the culture of their time and place.

This doesn’t just mean that they express the same truths in the vocabulary of their culture.  Rather, it also means that they have many unique features, and different strengths and weaknesses.  Also, it means that they are different mixtures of divine truths and human, egoic projections.

So, we can encourage harmony between people of different faiths without having to ignore all the differences between them.  We can reject the exclusive and hyper-conservative perspectives that see different religions as being on opposite sides of a cosmic battle of good against evil (with eternal consequences), without having to ignore the reality that some faiths are better than others in different ways.  They are not all equal and identical in their expression, and yet each human being is equal in the eyes of God, regardless of what faith (if any) they express.

We can (and should) be able to express criticisms of the beliefs and practices of different faiths without diminishing or dehumanising followers of such faiths.  We have to be able to have constructive debates and give critical examinations of religious groups without resorting to (or being wrongly accused of) religious bigotry or racism (as particular religions are commonly associated with specific racial and cultural groups, criticisms of some religions often get dismissed as racist).

We can do this whilst still seeing the differences between us as ultimately superficial, and seeing the common ground between faiths and people as a whole as being of true importance.

Gender and polarity:

There has been a massive push in Western culture recently to try to realise the ideal of equality between the sexes.  I for one have never been tied to strict traditional gender roles, so in principle I generally applaud this.  However, agreeing with the general value of something isn’t always the same as agreeing with the way something is implemented.

Whilst cultural conditioning can explain some of the differences between men and women, it is quite clear that some of our differences have a biological basis.  That is, whilst men and women are equal in ultimate value as human beings, we are not identical in our expression.  These biological differences are generally more pronounced in a traditional or primitive (this is a heavily loaded word, to be used carefully) way of life.  However, in our modern world they are becoming somewhat less important, and men and women are now able to share many of the same tasks and roles largely equally.

However, the reality is that many, if not most people prefer polarity in their romantic relationships.  That is, heterosexual men generally prefer feminine women, and heterosexual women generally prefer masculine men.  There are certainly many exceptions to this rule, but as a general rule it is almost universally true.  We also see this polarity in many (but not all) homosexual relationships, as it is common for one partner in a same-sex relationship to have more pronounced masculine traits, whilst the other has more pronounced feminine traits.

There is however also a push coming from the far-left (and into the mainstream left) to remove or even reverse natural human gender polarity.  I wish to walk carefully through this ground, as I am not interested in pushing back against any group or persons.  There needs to be freedom for everyone to express themselves naturally without being pressured into cultural norms that aren’t personally always a fit for their individual tendencies.  However, we can allow this without abandoning the natural polarity that many (if not most) people naturally express and enjoy.  We can evolve our understandings of gender without throwing out all features of traditional values that are rooted in biology and natural law.

Men and women are equal in value (as are intersex and transgender people), but we are not identical in our expressions.  Men and women do have distinct differences that should be understood and appreciated as complementary.  This leads me to the following statement, which I feel is worth emphasising:

Seeing unity within diversity should be our aim, rather than artificially enforcing uniformity.

A small percentage (approx. 0.02%[iii]) of people are born intersex, in which genetic abnormalities can blur the traditional distinctions between males and females.  Again, intersex people have equal value, but they have distinct challenges to experience as human beings.  Likewise, transgender people (those that suffer from gender dysphoria and choose to undergo surgery and hormone treatments to change their appearance to that of the opposite of their biological sex) have equal value to other people.  However, their experience is distinctly different to that of the rest of us.

I have been collecting sources on this subject for the past 9 months or so, in preparation for a series of articles where I will cover specifics relating to transgender issues.  I will state here that we can (and should) treat transgender and intersex people with the respect and dignity that they deserve, but that this doesn’t mean we should bend to all the requests made by far-left activists.  We can see the equality of trans and intersex people[iv]without rejecting the traditional gender binary.  We can respect the diversity of human personality without throwing out all distinctions of human biology (which is what many radical gender activists are actually trying to do).

Race, skin color, culture and civilisation:

As a final example, I want to also say that we can accept the equality of people of different races, skin colours and cultures as equal in their humanity, whilst recognising the differences in their expression.  I wish to be clear that I reject all ideas of the inherent superiority of anyone based on the colour of their skin or their genetics.  However, this does not mean that we cannot recognise some cultures as being more advanced than others, in different ways.

We need to be able to differentiate between the degree of civilisation in a culture, without resorting to racist ideas about some races and cultures being ultimately smarter or better than others.  I would prefer to say that certain cultures have developed forward momentum at particular times which has brought about rapid evolution, whilst others have stayed largely the same over very long periods of time.

At different points in recorded history this momentum has taken place in different cultures, with people of different skin colours.  Egypt, Sumer, India, Persia, China, Greece, Rome, Britain, the US, etc. have all had momentum in their favour at different times.  Only extreme bias can lead to the conclusion that some races or skin colours are objectively superior to others.  I personally believe in the ideal of a cosmopolitan, multicultural society.  However, such an ideal can only work when we come together under common values and leave traditional tribalism behind.

We need to be able to discuss the reality that some cultures are closer to the animal level and some further along the evolutionary chain, without resorting to a gross and oversimplistic dichotomy about inferior and superior races, or the equally problematic and oversimplistic dichotomy of oppressor and victim.  As I’ve said repeatedly, we need to be able to have important conversations without sacrificing either our intelligence or our decency.

Speak the truth with love, fearlessly.

Peace


[i] Though I recognise that some people might have a particular gripe with one or more of these professions.

[ii] See the following lengthy article I wrote on religious scriptures: https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2017/04/14/on-interpretations-of-scripture-why-many-religious-conservatives-and-progressives-misread-ancient-texts-and-misunderstand-religion-in-general/

[iii] A much higher figure is often quoted of 1.7%, but this figure includes people who are very clearly biologically female in every respect, but have genetic abnormalities that make it difficult for them to conceive and/or carry a child to term.  The much lower figure of 0.02% is apparently accurate in referring to intersex people as diverging from otherwise clear human gender distinctions.

[iv] You may have noticed I didn’t mention “non-binary” people here.  That is because the identification of someone as non-binary does not refer at all to anything biological (or an inverse of their biology, as in the case of transgender people), but rather refers only to personality.  Hence, non-binary is of a different category to issues of gender, as “gender identity” is not synonymous with biological sex as common uses of the term gender are.

It should go without saying that we should treat people that consider themselves non-binary with respect and dignity.  However, this doesn’t mean that we have to concede to all demands made by gender activists, or accept all accusations of bigotry that are often levelled against those that disagree.

Real goodness is a balance of strength and kindness:

For a long time I have been going on about the importance of balance in all areas of life.  Not only are there very few human beings that have achieved real balance in their lives, there are perhaps not enough of us that are even truly aspiring towards it (I don’t personally claim to have achieved balance in my life).

Of course, holding an ideal is all good and well, but realising it amidst the challenges of earthly life is a completely different thing.  If we are to say to ourselves “I wish to be a stronger person”, we don’t suddenly automatically find that our life becomes easier.  Rather, we find that we are constantly challenged by life, and we have to find the bravery to face it in a new way.

It has occurred to me that it is very easy to idealise kindness, at the expense of strength.  I think there are many examples of individuals and groups of people doing just this, and becoming quite unbalanced in the process.  Hence, I would suggest that rather than aspiring towards kindness alone, we should aspire towards goodness (for a lack of a better word[i]), which can perhaps be defined as a balance of strength and kindness.

Kindness without strength is weakness, and weakness can allow injustice and evil to proliferate.  Alternatively however, strength without kindness is harshness or brutality, which is itself evil.

It should be obvious to most people that human beings are different in many ways to the animals of this planet, and yet we share much in common with them.  I often say that human beings are somewhere between the animals and the angels.  Certainly much of our behaviour comes from biological instincts and egoic[ii] defense mechanisms, and yet there is another side to us as well.

Life as a whole demonstrates to us a vast plethora of ways in which it can express, and I suspect we are currently only aware of a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of this.  We human beings as well have a very wide range at which we can operate, depending upon individual biological factors, the way we are conditioned by our families and society at large, and our personal choices along the way.

Every single one of us is capable of stooping to great lows, and soaring to great highs, and we see this collectively as well.  Groups of people behaving in similar ways sometimes stoop to great depths of cruelty, depravity and degeneracy[iii].  Likewise however, large groups of people sometimes aspire and encourage each other to great heights of physical, intellectual and spiritual evolution.

Therefore life on earth consists of a duality between the harsh realities and various challenges of a material experience, and the great joys and treasures that can be found here.  Human beings are complex creatures, and often the same person can simultaneously carry great darkness and light within themselves.  Depending on our personal sensitivities and biases we may be more aware of one side of someone than another.

My point in the above is that we cannot simply treat human beings as animals or angels alone.  If we see humanity only in terms of their lower aspect we idealise strength alone, and think only in terms of animal instincts and selfish personal gains.  If we do this we make a great mistake in being closed off to the great beauty in life, and the true treasures of the Soul.

Alternatively, if we only see humanity in terms of their higher aspect, we idealise kindness alone, and think only in terms of unconditional love, peace and creative expressions.  Whilst this can be a wonderful way to live if you are able to live in a bubble, it can lead to a dangerous naivety that isn’t fully suitable to the needs of earthly life.

There is certainly a degree to which it is helpful to direct attention towards higher things, in order to feed that side of ourselves and others.  This however should be different to actually ignoring our earthly responsibilities to be realistic about the challenges we face, and to meet them in appropriate ways.

Earthly life naturally demands of us that we be both strong and kind.  Certainly some situations demand more of one than the other, and different people have different personality traits that make them more suitable for different roles than others. However, as a whole, this is a universal truth that we all must recognise.  We all must seek to balance the realities of what is and what has been, with what can be.  We all must seek to balance the need to stand for justice and a stable and strong society, with the ideals of peace and respect for all.

It seems to me that many of us go way too far in one direction, at the expense of the other.  Sometimes this is an individual leaning, whilst at other times we see it as part of the biases of different cultural, political and religious groups.

There are some that idealises kindness and tolerance alone, and in a strangely ironic way this leads many people to the opposite of these ideals, or it simply allows darkness to proliferate unchecked.  I think we can say that if your only value is tolerance you end up with no values, as it becomes impossible to have reasonable disagreements or constructive debate on anything.

Until recently I wasn’t aware of how bad things had become in this regard.  Those that read news from a variety of sources (i.e. not just mainstream sources on the one side of politics) might have some inkling as to what I refer to here.  I will give direct examples in some upcoming articles on political and social issues.

On the other side, there are some that idealise strength alone, and completely ignore empathy, tolerance and kindness.  Some of these people may achieve a significant degree of outward success, but they live with a gaping hole on the inside as they live in denial of the everlasting part of themselves.  There is something really quite ugly about the absence of empathy for others, and something truly beautiful about real compassion.

Political realism – Politics of the Strong and Weak:

I recently was made aware of a field of political thought known as Political realism.  This isn’t really a field I am personally drawn to investigate, but there was something I came across that I think is relevant.  From a quick glance it appears that Political realism argues that the interaction of world affairs can be explained solely by the self-interest of competing nation-states.

The Greek historian Thucydides tells a tale of the siege of Melos, from the Peloponnesian War between Athens and Sparta.  There is a section known as “The Melian Dialogue” just prior to the siege of Melos, in which the Athenians offer the locals of Melos terms for their surrender, which the Melians debate with them back and forth.  The Athenians make it clear that they are not interested in conversations on the morality of their actions.  They simply state: 

The strong do what they can and the weak suffer what they must.”[iv]

Another relevant passage is here quoted from the synopsis on Wikipedia:

The Melians argue that they will have the assistance of the gods because their position is morally just (they are simply defending themselves against invasion).  The Athenians counter that the gods will not intervene because it is the natural order of things for the strong to dominate the weak.”

There is certainly a great deal of truth in the bleak realism of Thucydides (who has voiced the perspective of the Athenians).  This is indeed how the lower, animal side of life works.  However, there is much more to us than this, and to live solely with such an outlook is to deny one’s own Soul.

The above example demonstrates the “politics of the strong” and the “politics of the weak”.  A person or group in a position of strength will often do what they want because they can.  Likewise, a person or group in a weak position will often cry for mercy on moral grounds.

I have raised this example here because I have seen many examples whereby a person or group of people ask for tolerance whilst on the back foot (in a weak position), and then go on the attack once they are on the front foot (in a strong position).

This is something I will refer back to in many upcoming articles, so I wanted to establish it here as a common human trait that we should be aware of.  It is often oversimplistic to define some people as victims and others as oppressors, as circumstances can change quickly and the roles can reverse (and I intend on citing some clear examples of this in upcoming articles).

Here is one of my main points:

True kindness will express equally regardless of whether one is in a strong or weak position relative to others.

If one is only kind when in a weak position, then it isn’t real kindness, but simply a defense mechanism of the ego.  A person or group of people that are truly good will do what is right according to the needs of the circumstances, and will always uphold their ethical principles rather than merely their egoic self-interests.

A truly great ruler cares about the needs of all.  Real strength is used to defend those that are vulnerable and maintain a prosperous and stable society, where citizens enjoy personal freedoms and are free from the great horrors of war. 

In closing:

One simply cannot live properly on this planet without true strength.  Under philosophical ideals some people have attempted to live a life of absolute pacifism.  Such things are simply not possible for everyone on this planet at this point in time.  For all that aspire to the ideals of peace and freedom for all, we are often compelled to stand up and fight, for such is the nature of this reality.  However, to use this fact as a justification to deny the higher qualities of oneself and others is to miss the true purpose of life itself.

So, I believe we should aspire to be good, to be both realistic about human nature, but also aspire to the loftiest ideals of spirituality and/or philosophy.  May we show kindness and empathy to others, but also not hesitate to stand up, speak up and act when necessary to defend the good of all.  May we accept the reality that some conflict is unavoidable in our world, and may we face up to this reality with strength and confidence.

Speak the truth with love, fearlessly.

Peace


[i] Perhaps the word righteousness could be used.  I think many of us now have an aversion to that word (as it is now seen as a loaded word), for better or for worse.

[ii] Please note again that I use the word “ego” in the way it is used in Eastern spirituality, and well explained by Eckhart Tolle.  I have written on this before: https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2016/02/18/the-ego-and-its-role-in-ideology/ , https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2017/08/15/ego-identity-and-football/ and https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2020/12/01/trauma-suffering-conditioning-and-the-ego/ .

[iii] Another loaded word that many have an aversion to.  I think personally there are appropriate contexts for this word in our vocabulary.

[iv] Thucydides, History of the Peloponnesian War, 5.89

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Siege_of_Melos

My thoughts on Free Will:

For much of my life I took it for granted that human beings possess free will, the power to make decisions and experience the consequences of them.  When I first encountered arguments against the existence of free will, I almost wasn’t sure what to make of them, as if they couldn’t actually be serious.  It turns out however that there are many people that are extremely serious about their belief that human beings do not possess free will, to the point that some of them cannot understand those of us that do believe in it.

Certainly it is clear to me that most human beings act unconsciously much of the time.  That is, we repeat patterns of behaviour that we have learned through the conditioning of our family, education, culture, religion and general life experiences etc.  As I have grown I have seen more and more how much of human behaviour is unconsciously driven, and how little of it is consciously directed.  Certainly then I will concede that human will isn’t as free as we like to think it is.  However, I consider full rejection of free will to be a completely different matter, along with full rejection of moral responsibility.

Plurality of truth is one of the basic foundations for my overall worldview, and I have been writing on this for well over 10 years now (see the following article for my thoughts on the matter[i]).  In short, I believe it is essential to make use of both relative and absolute conceptions of truth to make sense of reality and hold a cohesive worldview.  There are many people that profess to hold exclusively to one end alone (and thus reject all relativity or absolutes).  However, there are countless real life examples that demonstrate the necessity of both.

We know that physical matter is not solid, but made up almost entirely of empty space.  It is this fact that allows for much of the modern technology we now take for granted (like Wi-Fi signals passing through walls etc.).  And yet we experience the material world as being solid (aside from liquids, gases and plasmas obviously), and this experience cannot simply be downplayed, denied or rejected.  There is clearly room for both perspectives here, although they could be thought of as contradictory in isolation.  Whilst there are many examples that demand only relative or absolute applications, the complexity of life as a whole naturally demands we use both.

In the case of free will, many different thinkers have argued for a complete rejection of free will on grounds of materialistic interpretations of science (neuroscience in particular), spiritual/religious grounds and complex philosophical grounds.  To be quite frank here, I have never been particularly interested in following these arguments too closely.  I cannot claim to have invested significant periods of time to comparing different sides (though I did purchase and read Sam Harris’s book/article on the topic).  Rather, my thoughts here are my gut feelings, my natural leanings you could say on the subject.

I am writing this today as a friend online recently raised the subject in relation to my article on Ravi Zacharias that I shared[ii].  Obviously it is very difficult to avoid interspersing different elements of ones overall worldview into a conversation on a specific topic (everyone does it in ordinary conversation).  In this example I obviously do it deliberately, as this is my personal blog and I am openly giving out my thoughts on many topics.

For me personally, belief in the experience of free will is part of the foundation for a coherent perspective on life.  Many people disagree however, hence when discussing any number of other subjects it often occurs that someone will take issue with some of your underlying beliefs about reality, as these have some affect on the direct topic at hand.  Hence, I thought I would publish this here to make my own thoughts on the subject open to all.

Materialistic/scientific reasons for rejecting Free Will:

I have thus far encountered three main arguments for the total rejection of free will.  The first is based on the interpretation of some findings from neuroscience.  Please note I have very deliberately stated the interpretation of here, as I will argue that we need to be very clear on the difference between philosophy and science.

Firstly though, it is relevant here to give a brief summary of some relevant information to understand the complexity of this subject.  I published an article back in July 2015 as an introduction to my views on the subject[iii], and I will again explain a few snippets here.

It is quite clear that there is some sort of causal relationship between the physiological processes within the brain and our subjective experience of mind.  Certain chemical and electrical reactions correspond with psychological experiences.  The question then is what is the nature of this relationship?

We can quickly summarise by explaining two different types of brain/mind causality: Downward/mental causation and upward/physical causation.  Downward causation here implies consciousness or mind having its own ability to cause changes in the biological processes of the body.  An example would be deliberately choosing a sexual thought, which then sets forth physical reactions in the brain and body.  Upward causation is changes in the biological processes of the body, which then create a change in the subjective experience of mind.  An example would be after drinking several glasses of wine, the alcohol that has been introduced to the bloodstream creates obvious changes in the subjective experience of mind.

I would personally argue that we experience causation to go both ways[iv].  There are countless examples of both upward and downward causation, so it only makes sense to accept both as being experientially real.  In Western philosophy this is known as “interactionism”[v].  I would point out though that my own personal views on the topic are not derived from Western philosophy, so my thoughts here do not owe anything to Descartes or other well-known Western philosophers.

It could be said that human beings generally hold an unspoken assumption that mind and matter are two distinctly different things, and this view is known as dualism in the philosophy of mind.  There are however many different views on this matter, and I will briefly discuss two diametrically opposed views, each of which is essentially monistic.

A leading philosophical worldview today is known as metaphysical naturalism, which we can simply call naturalism, materialism or atheism for short (though atheism can be a misleading title[vi]).  Naturalism states that there is only matter (and perhaps the laws that govern it), and that no such thing as mind or consciousness exists aside from matter.  Naturalism thus perceives intelligence as being an example of emergence, that being something that emerges from the biological processes in the body and brain.  Ultimately, naturalism defines consciousness as an epiphenomena, a secondary effect of matter that only appears to exist as a distinct substance in its own right.

Through the confusion and conflation of methodological naturalism (part of the method of modern science) and metaphysical naturalism (materialism), many people believe that this perspective is the Scientific worldview (as I wrote in my previously cited article on Science and Spirituality).  That is, many scientists, philosophers and lay people believe that materialism is established by Science, similar to Heliocentrism, Plate tectonics and Biological evolution.

A diametrically opposite view (which I personally ascribe to) is known by Western philosophers as monistic idealism (though the view isn’t necessarily Western in origin, having ancient roots in the East).  In this view there is only one substance in reality, and that is Consciousness.  By its nature it is unlimited and infinite (without dimension – beyond space) and eternal (timeless – beyond time), it naturally creates life and is unchanging love and peace.  This perspective views all creation as God’s cosmic dream, comparable in some ways to the personal dreams that exist within individual minds during sleep.  When I sleep at night I perceive myself as a character within my dream, interacting with other characters in a timeline and landscape.  In truth, all of this occurs only within my mind.  My character, the other characters, the landscape, all objects are only consciousness.  Within my mind time and space may bend and warp, and are relative to the space in which they are created (my mind).

Neuroscience and the “readiness potential”:

In 1964 two German scientists discovered that brain activity could be recorded prior to voluntary muscle movement (see the “readiness potential”[vii]).  This experiment was later expanded upon and repeated over many decades by researchers across the globe.  In the 1980’s an American Neuroscientist by the name of Benjamin Libet did a series of experiments that appeared to show readiness potential before a subject was consciously aware of making a decision.  As a result, some thinkers have argued that the brain makes decisions as a purely physical apparatus, and our experience of a psychological self only thinks (or believes) it does so.  According to this view, the brain makes a decision and then a moment later we believe that we consciously choose what to do so.  Hence, it has been argued that we do not truly make our own decisions, and that our sense of free will is an illusion.

This is an interesting experiment, and if the methodology is sound then we must consider its implications.  My initial exposure with this evidence was presented in a way that made it seem that there was no contrary evidence or arguments.  Hence, there are many scientists and/or philosophers that seem to consider this an open and shut case.  However, there are in fact other scientists and philosophers that dispute the findings of these experiments and the conclusions that are commonly drawn from them.

As I am quite new to this subject myself and I haven’t invested significant time in comparing arguments and counter-arguments back-and-forth, I am going to simply link two articles below in the endnotes[viii] and give a very quick summary here of their content before moving on.

The first article by Steve Taylor is very short and concise, and mentions a number of criticisms that have been presented against Libet’s original experiment, along with some modified versions of the experiment which have presented potentially contrary findings (such as finding readiness potential when there is no movement, or even before images are presented for the subject to make a decision upon). Also, he also briefly mentions the possibility that decision making originates beyond the conscious level of the mind, and argues that this doesn’t imply that we haven’t made a decision, as the unconscious is still part of ones self[ix].

The second article by Bahar Gholipour explains an argument that what has been interpreted as readiness potential is simply rising and falling brain activity (or waves of neural activity), and that human beings naturally tend to make decisions at the peaks of these waves.  If this is true then readiness potential would simply be the rising of the neural activity before it peaks, rather than the brain making a decision before becoming consciously aware of it.  In support of this conclusion he cites an experiment on monkeys, which showed correlations between monkeys brain activity prior to data being presented and their later choice.

Furthermore, he cites a new study that included a control condition where the subjects didn’t move and used AI to exclude “brain noise”.  The study apparently only showed evidence of a decision 150 milliseconds before the movement, corresponding with the subjective experience of making a conscious decision, and appearing to refute Libet’s findings.

So, clearly there are scientists that dispute the claim that neuroscience has proven that human beings do not possess free will.  As with any subject being debated, it would be necessary to compare arguments and counterargument from multiple sides to really come to a proper understanding.  For today I am going to leave this here and move on to looking at free will from a more general, philosophical perspective.

As stated before, it is quite obvious that there is a correspondence between the physiology of the body/brain and our “internal” experience.  In all experiences that we have there are corresponding patterns in the brain and body.  Various meditation practices produce consistent changes in the brain, nervous and endocrine systems.  When people pray, scientists can register corresponding changes in electrical activity in the brain.

The same is also true outside of spiritual experiences.  When someone experiences fear or anger there are corresponding changes in the brain and body.  When a person feels love there are reliable responses in the brain that release “feel good” chemicals such as serotonin and dopamine.

Again though, internal experiences can also be stimulated by “hot-wiring” the body’s chemistry, through consummation of medicine/drugs.  To take some examples from the realms of banned substances, consumption of MDMA (Ecstasy) floods the brain with serotonin, creating the subjective experience of euphoria (ecstasy – hence the name) and deep love.  Likewise, consumption of DMT creates radical changes in brain chemistry that creates internal experiences that have some correspondences or overlap with advanced meditative states (ego death, transcendence of time and space, expanded/trans-dimensional sensory perception)[x].

I don’t feel that one can ultimately answer the question as to whether in reality causality only goes in one direction (upwards from matter, or downwards from spirit) or both directions (as we experience), without turning to a large-scale case for an overall worldview.  It is often the case that the same evidence can be interpreted from multiple perspectives, dependent upon various presumptions and relationship with myriad other fields of study.

It is very difficult to separate individual topics from ones overall worldview.  In theory at least, an overall worldview should be cohesive and able to elegantly explain all the myriad different subjects contained within it. Ideally, there should not be any circular reasoning involved, in which various parts of a worldview cannot stand on their own, but rely upon mutually related presumptions or assumptions.  In practice however, it is very difficult to have the level of understanding and self-awareness required to be fully aware of how much and how little one truly knows about the things we consider to be true (as I recently wrote[xi]).

This may sound like a bit of a cop out, but it seems to me that to go beyond our immediate experience and perception of bi-directional causality in the mind-body and try and gain a more reliable perspective, it is therefore necessary to undertake a large-scale conversation about science, spirituality and philosophy as a whole.  To restate, there seems to be equal evidence for upward and downward causation, and overwhelming evidence for the experiential reality of both.  I’m not sure if this topic can be resolved simply on it’s own merits.

Certainly though, the trend in current scientific and medical circles is to look to brain chemistry as the cause of internal experiences.  As noted before, it seems to me that metaphysical naturalism came in the back door with methodological naturalism, and it is thus being taken as a philosophical presumption that underlies much interpretation of modern science and medicine.

Different levels of consciousness in the Self:

I have argued that we shouldn’t necessarily presuppose materialism as a philosophical lens that underlies interpretation of scientific data.  Having noted above that there may be reason to reject the findings of Libet’s experiments, let us consider a philosophical response to the standard interpretation of his studies. So, let us assume we do indeed have repeated experiments that show biological processes apparently preceding the internal experience of making a choice.  Given the materialistic lens of many modern scientists and philosophers, the standard interpretation is that the experience of making a choice is an illusion, and that it is in fact the brain that makes decisions before we are aware of it.

I would like to suggest that there is a plausible alternative that maintains the primacy of consciousness, and it is surprising to me that I haven’t seen more mention of it when reading on this subject (I don’t recall Sam Harris mentioning it at all in his book).  This will essentially be the main part of my response on the subject.  It appears self-evident to many of us (myself included) that experientially, there are various layers (or dimensions) to consciousness. That is, whilst I personally espouse a monistic worldview (as an absolute viewpoint), it is clear that in our experience (the relative viewpoint) there are multiple levels to reality.  There may not be strict defining lines between them (so they may be part of a continuum), but certainly the point stands. If this is the case, then some of our decision making will come from beyond the surface level of consciousness (as argued by Steve Taylor), but the deeper levels of us is still us.

Relevant experiences from dreaming:

It seems self-evident to me that there is much to consciousness that is beyond the normal waking state.  Anybody that experiences vivid recollection of their night-time dreams and/or the experience of lucid dreaming should be able to attest to this.  Likewise, anybody with personal experience of altered states of consciousness (whether attained through spiritual practices, consumption of entheogens or near death experiences) should be able to attest that they have experienced vastly expanded states of being that give access to far greater intelligence than available in the “normal” waking state.

I think some examples from my personal experience might be relevant here.  I have always had a very vivid dream life, and I have experienced lucid dreaming throughout most of my life[xii].  It is common for me to be able to observe a part of my mind thinking the dream into experience.  That is, I experience myself as a part of consciousness that it silently witnessing another part of my consciousness that is thinking, and the thoughts are taking shape as the dream.  I can then choose to interfere and override the other part of my dreaming consciousness and change the course of the dream.  Or, I can simply watch it, without being fully identified with it (as in a “normal” dream, when you experience yourself as a subject or character within a dreamscape and situation).

In a similar manner I have also experienced retaining full consciousness whilst falling asleep, both into dreaming and dreamless sleep.  In the former case it involves having full waking consciousness and being completely aware of the shift in my reality.  In the latter case it has been more like an out of body experience where part of me is watching the other part of me in deep, dreamless sleep.

The main difference between lucid and “regular” dreaming is that in lucid dreaming you have a degree of self-awareness where you realise/remember that you are generally associated with a body/mind that is currently laying asleep on a bed, and that the experience you are currently having is an internal dream.  By comparison, in “regular” dreaming you are completely identified with the character and circumstances within the dream, and you have little to no awareness of your life outside of it.  During lucid dreams I can fly, make objects levitate and manipulate the “reality” of the dreamscape at will, just to name a few features that differentiate them from normal dreams and waking consciousness.

It is also common for me that once asleep I can remember a whole series of other dreams that I have had over many years.  It is as if there is a parallel long-term memory that is activated, that connects my dreams over time.  I have heard people that have experience with psychedelics/entheogens describing a similar phenomenon, whereby they can only remember certain features of the experience whilst in the altered state, and as soon as they revisit it they remember features of previous “trips”.

Another aspect of my personal experiences with dreaming that I think is relevant here is that of precognition.  I’m not sure how old I was when I first became aware that my dreams often foreshadowed circumstances of my waking life.  I seem to recall becoming aware of this in my teens (perhaps earlier), but certainly it became abundantly clear from my mid-20’s and onwards, once I started pursuing a spiritual path.  I often dream of unique circumstances that generally come to pass within a week or so of the initial dream.  Most often they come about the next day (after waking), but occasionally they take a week or two to come to fruition.

Obviously a great deal of critical thinking and self-awareness is required to make these sorts of claims.  It is obviously all too easy to deceive oneself with delusions of grandeur, or to seek patterns in random events.  Hence, I don’t present my own experiences of precognition with the intention of trying to convince anybody else that the phenomenon is real, or that there is anything special about me (there is not, these experiences are very common).  These experiences are evidence for me of the objective reality of spirituality.  Everyone has to have their own experiences to know this for themselves.

So, the reason I mention them here is that they have significant implications for the subject of free will.  Firstly, they validate the view that human consciousness is not limited to the physical body, but rather “flows out” into a deeper intelligence.  In the dream state (and other non-ordinary states of consciousness) many of us can access information that is beyond the scope of our waking mind.

Secondly, and perhaps more disturbingly, it implies that some events are becoming highly probable before they occur in the physical world.  The full implications of this are quite shocking when truly thought through.  About 12 months ago I had quite a vivid dream at the start of a week (Sunday night perhaps) which contained two distinct events.  Both of these came to pass within 30 mins of each other the following Friday.

To accept this particular dream as precognition it required me to accept that many precise details of my day were extremely high in probability (or certain) a full week in advance.  The timing of when I would leave work, exactly what would take place at home and precisely when I would leave to go to the shops were all essential for me to witness the fulfilment of a dream.  Likewise, it also involved the coordination of a number of other people being in a precise location at a precise time.  The full coordination of all these factors is beyond the scope of human intelligence.

To accept that precognition can be a real phenomena implies that the actions of countless individuals can be known well in advance by a cosmic intelligence.  This implies that we aren’t all separate individual beings like we think we are.  Rather, we could perhaps be like trees, joined through our roots in the ground that make up the Forest as a whole, intelligent entity in its own right.  So, the phenomenon implies a higher order that is greater than the individual experience of personal will and choice.

These are just a number of examples from dreaming that I think are relevant here.  There are many other examples that could be given from altered states of consciousness, particularly through meditation and the use of psychedelics that would be highly relevant.  However, I am aware that what I am writing here is intended as a blog post, not a book.  Hence, I will leave out much of what I would like to cover for the sake of readability.

Being the Witness to the Mind:

For most of humanity, our sense of identity is conflated with our body, our mind and our personal life circumstances.  When we feel cold we don’t say, “I feel cold”; rather we tend to say, “I am cold”.  When we experience pain we don’t say, “I am experiencing pain”; rather we say, “I am hurt”.  There is no recognition of space between the phenomena that we are aware of, and ourself, that which is aware (the Self).  Likewise, most of us do not differentiate between our thought processes and our awareness of them.  Hence, we mostly believe that our thoughts are essential to our self.

Through meditation and other spiritual practices (such as self-inquiry), one learns that true identity cannot be found in the content of the mind.  Rather, the true Self is that which perceives the mind, along with all else.  In this way one distinguishes between unconscious and repetitive thinking, and the deeper sense of I that initially perceives it without itself moving.  Over time, after becoming rooted in the deeper Self the mind becomes still by itself, without effort.

Likewise, one can differentiate between instinctive and conditioned mental processes (and their emotional counterparts), and a sense of individual will that possesses higher intelligence and moral integrity.  Psychological and spiritual evolution thus involves cultivating and developing the higher mind, and gradually allowing the lower mind to dissolve into it.

There are many different models of the makeup of the human being in Western and Eastern philosophy (amongst others), that describe different components of our being.  Some very basic models would be body/mind or body/mind/soul.  More complex models split mind into many different components and/or propose many different levels or dimensions to our spiritual nature.

There are many such models in Indian philosophy.  One model that I will mention here is the “’Kosha theory” as found in the Taittiriya Upanishad[xiii].  This model proposes that human beings are manifest in five “bodies”, the first being our physical body, the second made up of life force energy (prana), the third mind, the fourth a higher intelligence and the fifth a pure spiritual force.  Beyond this it states that the true reality of the human being is the Atman (indwelling Spirit), and that the Atman is ultimately Brahman (the Supreme and ultimate reality).

This model explains that human beings have the potential to function based on automatic conditioning and unconscious instincts, if our higher nature is underdeveloped.  Alternatively however, we also have the potential to develop the higher levels of our being and operate with a clearer sense of purpose and will, using discernment to supersede our conditioning and primal instincts.

Awareness beyond the mind:

Through my spiritual path I have been blessed to experience pure awareness beyond the personal mind.  This is a very different experience to simply quietening the mind, as that requires significant effort and energy.  When you experience pure awareness there is no effort required to be silent.  Rather, silence is simply your nature, and no energy is required to rest in the Self.

This experience isn’t an out of body experience and it isn’t dissociative in any way (as defined by Western psychology).  Rather, it involves a natural and effortless clarity and focus, accompanied by a deep and fulfilling peace (ananda) and heightened intuitive and creative capacity.  From this experience it is clear that mental processes do not constitute your true nature, for they come and go, and yet you remain untouched.  As awareness you witness them arise and then fall, yet you do not come and go with them.  In fact, you may simply choose as awareness not to think at all, unless thought is required for some practical purpose.

It is clear that even what one considers to be their personality is also something that can be witnessed or observed from awareness.  Again, this isn’t a dissociative experience, but it involves absolute clarity and sanity.  The personality has very definite characteristics and it changes over time.  Yet the awareness is pure and without boundary or definitions, and it remains ever the same.

Human consciousness as merely the tip of an iceberg:

There are a number of models of consciousness that present the normal human waking state as merely the tip of the iceberg, in a vast ocean.  In this metaphor, only a small amount of the iceberg is above the surface, whilst the majority is below the surface.  Going further, even the ice is ultimately just water that is frozen, so it is of the same substance as the ocean itself.  Here we can see that the iceberg is ultimately tiny in comparison to the ocean as a whole.

This is certainly the view of Indian spiritual philosophy.  We are largely only aware of a tiny fraction of our total being, with the majority of ourselves being outside of our awareness and perceptual range.  Going further, even the deeper levels of our being are ultimately only a tiny fraction of life as a whole, and we are ultimately made of the same substance as the great ocean of Being.

From my (limited) knowledge of the work of Carl Jung, this was a primary foundation of his theories, particularly relating to the collective unconscious and universal archetypes.  However, It seems that this thinking has fallen out of favour in Western psychology in modern times, as materialism is now a presumption underlying most (if not all) accepted theories.

For those with openness to this way of viewing life, there is much evidence for this.  It is obviously far beyond the scope of this article to really go properly into such evidence though (and this article is already getting quite long).  I have given some examples from my own experience already, and I feel it’s time to move on now.

Galen’s “Basic Argument” – The Soul and its nature:

Another argument that I have seen presented against free will is Galen Strawson’s “Basic Argument”[xiv].  This argument claims that we do what we do because of our nature, and we cannot help our nature.  Whilst Galen was a strict materialist, it has been argued that this argument would still hold even in the case of a non-physical Soul or Spirit. Before offering a very brief response to this argument, I should make it clear that I have not studied Strawson’s work at all, and really haven’t gone into this field.  Hence, I can only offer a response to the basic summary that has been presented to me.

I should also note that as a whole, I have never really felt the desire to read Western philosophy.  I have always felt (and still do) that the Western mind has been conditioned to be fantastic at many things (science, medicine, art and music etc.), but that the East is where true philosophy has flourished.  I feel that much of (but not all) Western philosophy is essentially mind games, intellectual speculation, or if you can excuse the crude metaphor “mental masturbation”.  By contrast I feel that much of Eastern philosophy is built upon personal experience from a sincere attempt to probe the depth of reality.

Having noted this, I can see no real substance to Strawson’s argument, but rather only circular reasoning and baseless presuppositions.  For me, the response is really quite simple.  The way we are right now (our nature) is a result of a myriad of choices we have made over time.  Whilst we may not be able to help who we are right now, we are certainly at least partially responsible for who we are, as it is a result of the choices we have made throughout our life.  Every small decision we make adds up to the overall trajectory of our life.  Every miniscule choice has an affect on our character.

To give an example that most people can understand, let us imagine that there is a person called Stephen who is unhealthy and out of shape, and wants to do something about it.  Stephen gets home from work at 6pm, and is very tired after a hard day in the office.  Stephen has to make dinner, and feels it would be much easier to sit down in front of the TV then to try and go out for a run or go to the gym.

Stephen gives in and lounges around at home instead of exercising.  The next morning Stephen wakes up and regrets his decision the previous night.  However, he makes excuses for himself and feels that he couldn’t help his nature.  Whilst he has the desire to get fit, his lack of fitness accentuates the tiredness he feels after a long day at work.  There is momentum in his lethargy and lack of self-discipline, and it is hard to beat the current of this momentum.

However, it all starts with one small decision one night to go for that run, regardless of the tiredness.  The first night Stephen may get half way round the block and then be exhausted.  However, if he persists he quickly discovers that as soon as he begins he feels energised and enjoys the run.  He then sleeps much better and wakes up with more energy in the morning.  He then comes home feeling better, and then over time can clearly see the results of his effort.

At the very beginning Stephen did not have the freedom to completely change his nature from someone that did not take care of his health and lacked healthy self-discipline, to the opposite.  However, the small choices he makes every day create momentum that, over time, create significant changes in his life.  Two years later someone could meet Stephen and say he was athletic and highly driven.

We can make the same case for literarily anything.  It could be an addiction to drugs or alcohol, a desire to stand up for oneself, to be kinder to others, to educate oneself and increase ones intelligence, to improve ones financial position or to find a romantic partner etc.  All of these are affected by the nature of a person at a particular time.  Everyone has a degree of freedom to affect the kind of person they are and the kind of life they live.  You cannot change everything about yourself or your life instantly, but you can make one choice after another that directs your personality and life in a very different direction from where it has been.

Obviously all living beings are conditioned by environment, family, biology, and culture etc.  I have written on this many times before[xv]. Likewise, not everyone experiences the same opportunities from their personal circumstances.  If someone is born into a small village in a poor country with a corrupt government, it is going to be much, much harder for them to develop financial abundance then for someone born into a stable family in a relatively wealthy country, with good education and employment easily available.  However, it is simply not the case that as a whole we cannot help our nature.  We all have the capacity to mould our own nature to meet our ideals.

In terms of Galen Strawson’s argument still applying where there is belief in a non-physical Soul or Spirit, I would state that I often find that materialists often imagine all sorts of made up rules about how spirituality should work.  For example, I have seen materialists argue that if mind is in fact non-physical, it would have no means of interacting with matter.

As someone who has spent a great deal of time investigating spirituality it seems hard for me to understand how someone could actually argue this, as it seems to imply a complete unfamiliarity with the subject.  Many of us that believe that consciousness is non-physical believe that it is primary over matter, and that in-fact, matter is an experiential reality within consciousness.  It seems pretty simple therefore to imagine how consciousness interacts with matter.  In fact, one could argue that evidence of downward causation is difficult (or even impossible) for materialism to explain under their model.  Obviously I don’t have the time here to deal with this little sub-topic.  I raised it merely as it was relevant to Strawson’s argument as it has been presented to me.  The Western mind is certainly brilliant at many things, but it is of course still subject to bias.

It is a valid question for those of us that believe in spirituality, whether human beings possess a non-physical Soul that pre-existed before the birth of the body.  The Abrahamic faiths generally believe that the Soul comes into existence with the conception of the foetus, and then exists after the death of the body[xvi].  Eastern religions and modern New Age spirituality generally accept the belief in reincarnation, and with it the belief that human beings possess an immortal Soul or Spirit that pre-existed before the current life.  Many variations of this involve the belief that a human may have lived hundreds or even thousands of times before, perhaps in a variety of forms.

Obviously, if a Soul is created at conception of the current life then this would suggest that all beings are somewhat at the mercy of the hand of God, in terms of the starting point of their nature.  That is, under such a model all beings still have the freedom to choose the trajectory of their life, but with vastly different starting positions.  In many ways, this corresponds with our observations about the vast differences in the physical circumstances of people’s lives.  One can certainly see how the Abrahamic model could be used in support of Stawson’s argument.  However, even under such a model one would still have room to choose the best of their own nature, and steer themselves from their starting point.

Alternatively, if we consider the belief in reincarnation, then we could see how the personality (and potentially life circumstances[xvii]) of an individual could be built upon many lifetimes of choices.  Under this model the nature of a Soul is simply the result of thousands upon thousands of choices, not only in the current life but also over large spans of time.  One can therefore see that in this case Galen Strawson’s argument would be false, as indeed every being is indeed at least significantly responsible for their own nature.

Free Will as empowerment:

It is the nature of ego to defend the way one is and has been, and to resist true spiritual growth.  Whilst ego has an insatiable need for more, true spiritual growth involves the dissolution of the egoic mind.  Hence, from a spiritual perspective we can state that by definition the ego maintains itself through self-limitation, with defensiveness simply part of its nature.

It is an unfortunate truth that most people are their own worst enemy (again, I have written on this before[xviii]).  That is, our ego creates suffering for ourselves and others around us, and creates resistance that prevents us from living the life our heart truly desires.  Ego will thus naturally gravitate itself towards beliefs that sustain itself.  For this aim, ego can either be attracted to beliefs that are by their nature self-limiting, or can appropriate beliefs from various sources and twist them to its own desire.

As an example, someone recently told me that they cannot forgive other people because of their star sign.  That is, they believe that the month (and hence star sign) in which they were born fixes their personality in such a way that they are unable to forgive people that they perceive have done them wrong[xix].  Likewise, I recall many years ago hearing someone explain their belief that a Soul will go through a cycle of incarnating into different star signs in a particular order, as if the progression directly related to their level of spiritual growth.  This person believed that you can only be enlightened at the end of the cycle, after incarnating during a specific month/star sign.

I must confess to not know a great deal about astrology.  It seems to me however that whether or not astrology has any degree of truth to it, one could still evolve spiritually and become free, regardless of what month/star sign you were born in.  Even if we assume astrology is indeed correct to state that your personality is partially shaped by your star sign, one could still evolve from your starting point and bring out the best in your potential.

I presume the above examples are misappropriations of astrology, rather than accurate expressions of its doctrines.  There are however certainly no shortages of examples from world history where a belief system was based around disempowerment.  I will give some examples in a moment.

I would therefore argue that belief in free will is empowering, both for ourselves and for others.  To believe that you have the capacity to change and move towards the fulfilment of your dreams is clearly a healthy approach to life.  Likewise, to inspire others to do the same is in their best interests.

Alternatively, when you do not believe you have the capacity to change, you are not even going to try.  When you believe you are at the mercy of forces beyond your control, you perceive the world in a very dismal way, and your experience will appear to validate your belief in lack and limitation.

Just to be clear though, I have written many times before that whilst we should aspire towards high ideals, this should not involve being harsh and judgmental with ourselves or others. Of course human beings need to learn to be kinder to both ourselves and others. However, aspiring towards personal growth and inspiring others to do the same doesn’t have to imply that we project negative judgments upon our current states of being. The two do not necessarily have to go together.

John Calvin and the absurd and abhorrent implication of complete absence of free will:

The Christian theologian John Calvin was one of the main leaders of the Protestant reformation (along with Martin Luther).  Many modern Protestant Christians denominations have built their faith upon the foundation which he (and others) laid.  Whilst Calvin covered many different features of Christian theology in his writings, I wish to quickly mention here one of the main foundations of his theology: Predestination.  Whilst belief in the absolute sovereignty of God and predestination in Christianity didn’t originate with Calvin (Calvin himself acknowledged the influence of Augustine of Hippo), it found in Calvin a new emphasis and was perhaps taken to a new level.

I have been quite clear throughout my writings that I consider the belief in eternal damnation to be the most vile, irrational aberration of human thought in known history.  The very reason why I write is to attempt to separate truth from falsehoods, and in particular separate true spirituality from religious and/or cultural superstitions.  The very idea that the Supreme Being would condemn and/or allow beings to be tortured for eternity is simply abhorrent and makes no sense.

I have also been clear in my writings that true compassion does not necessarily imply a failing a justice.  There can be implications to misdeeds that can be allowed to play out whilst still giving grace and love to all.  There are models of divine justice that accept the reality of the hellish lower astral worlds that some beings inhabit after death, but do not consider these states eternal or mandated by God[xx].

Obviously I have many points of contention with Christian theology as a whole.  I personally view theological and apologetic works that deal with the doctrine of eternal damnation as a misuse of the human intellect.  A useful analogy might be asking brilliant University students to each write a thesis defending the work of history’s worst tyrants.

Anyways, the traditional Christian doctrine of eternal damnation is already awful enough, even when there is belief in free will.  Put predestination into it and you take it to a whole new level of vileness.  Calvin’s doctrine of double-predestination actually implies that God creates beings with a predetermined destiny to be tortured eternally in hell!  With such a belief in God, one might wonder why they also believe in Satan, as how could one imagine a being more evil than their conception of God?  Prior to Calvin, Augustine of Hippo himself had already argued in defense of the belief that babies that died without being baptised would suffer eternal damnation.  Truly monstrous ideas indeed!  If blasphemy exists, then surely this is it: Ascribing the most heinous ideas to divinity.

Anyways, my point here was to give some extreme examples of the implications of a complete lack of free will[xxi].  However, even without these extremes it still seems absurd to me. I cannot fathom meaning in a world where one doesn’t have the capacity to choose right from wrong.  For me, I cannot see meaning in existence without at least some experiential degree of free will and relational cause and affect.

Plurality of truth:

I have written many times before about the need to be able to balance out opposing ends of duality[xxii], and the need to use both relative and absolute conceptions of truth[xxiii].  As I briefly mentioned in the introduction, I believe that to understand free will you must be able to look at it from both relative and absolute perspectives.

It must be acknowledged that experientially, free will exists, at least to a degree.  We all have the experience of being individuated conscious beings that make decisions and experience the consequences of them.  Certainly, we also have the experience of struggling against our nature and instincts.  A major part of being human seems to be the search for balance between expressing the needs of our body, emotions and mind in healthy ways, and transcending them in favour of the higher potentials of the Spirit.

Also though, there is much evidence from science, philosophy and spirituality that our sense of personhood is largely an illusion, and that there is a grand order to the Cosmos.  In this sense each human being is more like a molecule in a cell, in an organ, in a body, than a separate, finite unit with sole will over its existence.  Many people have had personal spiritual experiences through meditation, ritual, psychedelics or Near Death experiences in which they perceived a grand unity to existence, with their own body, mind and soul as being like a wave in a great ocean.  From this perspective our normal sense of free will starts to break down.

However, for me it is not so much that these experiences of unity completely dissolve free will and moral responsibility.  Rather, they give a greater context to it, and expand its meaning.  To understand free will you need to see both the immediate, immanent reality, and the greater, transcendent reality.  To try and understand the subject with only one end of the stick is to be incomplete, and this creates issues when an incomplete understanding is applied in real life.

I keep coming back to the example/analogy of the relativity of time and space.  We know that time and space are only experienced as being real, and are thus only relatively, not absolutely real.  And yet they are still essential elements of our experience here as human beings on earth.  We simply cannot fathom our existence here in a three (or four with time) dimensional reality without time and space.  When people have experiences that appear to be beyond time and space they have trouble translating them through language, as they are outside our common vocabulary.

For me, the same is true of free will.  It may be that our experience of free will is largely (or even entirely) illusory.  And yet it is an essential element of the experience of being human, and life on earth in a human body makes no sense without it.

I would like to offer a speculation on the spiritual perspective of free will.  It is often argued that if our experience of being finite minds is an illusion and there is only infinite consciousness, then this would naturally imply that our free will was also an illusion.  I would respond by arguing that in this spiritual perspective, the apparent will of the individual is actually the will of God, under disguise and suffering amnesia.  Due to its forgetfulness of its true nature as Spirit, it experiences human will rather than Divine will.  Nevertheless, it is still will.  One could therefore argue that to deny human free will would be to deny Divine will, and therefore to limit the Divine and consider it finite.

Ultimately though, these are merely intellectual speculations.  Mind games.  Whatever the case may be, the fact remains that we experience ourselves largely as individuated beings.  Hence, unless you are experiencing the full, classical conception of enlightenment continuously (permanent union with the Divine, complete non-duality), then you are experiencing reality as bound by time and space, and also experiencing yourself as an individuated being possessing free will.  How many people on the planet can truthfully claim that they are fully enlightened in the classical sense[xxiv]?

I believe we should live as if we have free will, until or unless we reach a permanent state in which we know ourselves to be extensions of the Divine, at which point such conversations are irrelevant.  The evidence of one who is living without ego should be that they live a life of wisdom and compassion.  Likewise, we should encourage others to live as if they have free will, until they too know themselves to be extensions of the Divine.  We should treat others and ourselves as if we are morally responsible for our actions.  Again, the evidence of one living without ego is that they do not do harm to others (though some may still take offence at them or may fail to recognise them due to their cynicism, ignorance and arrogance).

Mooji has repeatedly stated that no free will is not a good teaching, only a good discovery.  I feel that is a sensible approach to spiritual nullifications of free will.  I have attended satsang with a modern Advaita teacher that was reputed to be enlightened (along with a number of his students), where no free will was emphasised as a main teaching.  Whilst I felt some Presence in the meetings and felt that those present (including the teacher himself) were lovely people, I didn’t feel that they were enlightened.  I personally felt the teaching of no free will to be counterproductive, and I didn’t feel that anyone present was able to understand the implications of what they were teaching.

Moral responsibility:

I would hope that it goes without saying that this is a very troubling idea.  Certainly I have long been arguing that we should show compassion to absolutely everyone, including those that mistreat others and even those that commit crimes against others.  However, I have also always argued that compassion should not necessarily override justice.  That is, we can forgive someone in our hearts and show them kindness as human beings, and yet still demand that justice be served.  Grace should not necessarily cancel out the consequences of misdeeds.

To believe that others have no power to change their behaviour is to do them a great disservice.  How many people have reformed their behaviour and credited a large part of it to the insistence of someone who simply wouldn’t give up on them?  It is common that when you try and help someone with major behavioural problems they will lash out at you in their defensiveness.  However, if you finally get through to them they sometimes finally realise what a great service you did for them.  It is unfortunately par for the course that if you have a heart to help others you have to be able to not take it personally when they react defensively against you.  However, it is all worthwhile when you see someone turn their life around.

I truly believe that quite literally everyone has the capacity to change any and all of their behaviours, though very few realise a fraction of that potential within the current earthly life.  Whilst it certainly seems likely to me that our human conception of free will and individuality are only relatively true, I can see no reason or purpose in rejecting them completely.  I can see nothing positive coming out of the total rejection of free will and moral responsibility.

Human beings need to be inspired to believe in our own capacity to change.  We need to be reminded of our own potential.  Consciousness is by its very nature unlimited.  Anyone that takes the time to explore themselves through a genuine spiritual practice can experience this for themselves.  Knowing this, we can step back from the conditioned patterns of behaviour that keep us stuck in repetitive cycles.  In stepping back we pull the plug out and remove the power source from our ego, taking back our true power.  In doing so we realise that we can become anything we truly desire in our heart, as long as that desire doesn’t come from the conditioning itself.

In this process there is a certain experience of surrender to a greater power and intelligence, and a letting go of the sense of individual will.  And yet we continue to have the experience of individuation and experience the consequences of our choices.

In summary:

It is clear that reality is far vaster and weirder than what we human beings can currently comprehend.  Many of our attempts to define ourselves and life as a whole massively oversimplify the complexities that are inherent in the cosmos.  There is room for us to approach some areas of life with simplicity, and in other ways recognise the incomprehensible complexity of creation.

Human beings should live as if we have free will, as if we are empowered and inspired to create positive change and growth, and as if we are morally responsible for our actions.  However, we should also recognise that our sense of personal doership is only a relative truth, something that appears to be so, and is useful (or even essential), even if it is not absolutely true.  There is much evidence of a deeper order to reality that defies human conceptions of time, space and individuality.

In playing our part and accepting personal responsibility and empowerment with humility, we can align ourselves with a greater power, a greater intelligence and a greater love.  In this way we have the potential to rise above both the unconscious unity with nature of the animals and the conscious division with nature of current human consciousness, and evolve into conscious unity with life as a whole.

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[i] https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2019/07/15/to-see-the-big-picture-you-have-to-be-able-to-consider-the-validity-of-many-different-perspectives/

[ii] https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2020/12/28/my-thoughts-regarding-the-scandalous-revelations-about-ravi-zacharias/

[iii] https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2015/07/12/science-philosophy-and-the-supernatural-101/

[iv] There are many people that argue simply for physical, upward causation only.  I have heard people argue that as (they believe that) consciousness is epiphenomena of matter, all perceived activity of consciousness is in truth actually the activity of matter.  That is, if you believe that physical processes are the cause of the mental experience of making decisions, then ultimately there is no difference between upward and downward causation, as they are all then upward (from matter).

I obviously don’t have the time and space here to do this topic justice, but obviously we should not allow presumptions to pass as facts.  Otherwise this would simply be circular reasoning.  You can’t assume materialism in order to make an argument for materialism.  You can however suggest natural explanations for evidence that may go against materialism (though one would have to accept the speculative nature of such a line of reasoning).

The opposite however can also be reasoned.  That is, one can also argue that as there is only consciousness, all causation is downward.  There is no physical activity in which consciousness isn’t present, otherwise it wouldn’t be known in any way, and thus could not be discussed.  Assuming that matter is an appearance, experience or epiphenomena within consciousness, thus all material causation is only ever truly downward causation. Again though, the same rules apply. We should not use circular reasoning, regardless of where we sit on these issues.

[v] https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/dualism/#Int

[vi] Many people believe in spiritual and/or paranormal phenomena and do not subscribe to the belief in a Supreme Being. Likewise, many simply do not like their belief in the nature of Reality being confused with personal conceptions of God as found in theistic religions such as orthodox Christianity.

[vii] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bereitschaftspotential

[viii] https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/how-a-flawed-experiment-proved-that-free-will-doesnt-exist/ and:

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2019/09/free-will-bereitschaftspotential/597736/.

[ix] My initial response to my first encounter of this case against free will was to argue along the same grounds, well before I had read Steve Taylor’s article.  I will cover this shortly.

[x] I will point out here that there are different opinions as to whether drug induced states are equal or inferior to altered states of consciousness achieved through other spiritual practices.  I will give my own thoughts on this subject in an upcoming article.

[xi] https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2020/12/10/how-do-we-really-know-what-is-true/

[xii] The only exception was during the 5-6 years (’99-‘05) in which I was smoking marijuana every day.  When I stopped, my (recollection of) dreaming returned.  It was actually quite surprising to me when I first heard in adult life that some people do not remember their dreams.  I actually have a friend who has absolutely zero recollection of his dreams, to the point that he doesn’t have any familiarity with the experience at all.  This was quite shocking to me that my own personal night-time experiences were absolutely foreign to him.

[xiii] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taittiriya_Upanishad#Ananda_Valli.  Also, see the excellent explanation of the five koshas at the following link: https://yogainternational.com/article/view/the-koshas-5-layers-of-being.

[xiv] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Galen_Strawson#Free_will

[xv] https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2020/12/01/trauma-suffering-conditioning-and-the-ego/ for one example.

[xvi] Though there are some that believe that without salvation there is no afterlife in any form (hence extinguishment).

[xvii] Just to be clear, there are other alternatives other than the simple (and potentially disturbing) belief that those born into difficult circumstances in this life are suffering the consequences of past mistakes, and that those that are blessed in this life are reaping the rewards of past good deeds.

[xviii] Again, see the following article (which I have now referenced twice here): https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2020/12/01/trauma-suffering-conditioning-and-the-ego/

[xix] Please note that I have deliberately written, “they perceive have done them wrong”, rather than just “have done them wrong”.  There is obviously no question there are many people that cause harm to others.  However, there are also some people who are so caught up in their heads that they cannot see that they are the one creating suffering for everyone (including themselves).

[xx] I obviously do not have the time here to cover this in detail.  I have hinted on this before in some previous articles and written on it in length in my upcoming book (which has been now overdue for a good 5-10 years).  I will publish an article on death in the coming month/s, which will cover this topic in some depth.

[xxi] I should mention that some Christians who believe in full predestination also ascribe to a belief in free will.  How on earth they manage to live with this cognitive dissonance is fortunately beyond me.

[xxii] https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2018/08/27/faith-and-reason-devotion-and-skepticism-in-spiritual-life/

[xxiii] https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2019/07/15/to-see-the-big-picture-you-have-to-be-able-to-consider-the-validity-of-many-different-perspectives/

[xxiv] Please note my deliberate emphasis on the classical definition of enlightenment versus modern conceptions of it.  Many people today consider simply being free of uncontrolled mental activity and the turbulent emotions it creates to be enlightenment.  This however is simply a significant but early step in the classical conception. I will write on this at some point.

How do we really know what is true?

How does one properly go about investigating a topic?  Who do we trust to give us reliable information on a topic?  How do we evaluate our existing presumptions about life?  The reality is that we all carry innumerable presumptions, things we believe in with a great deal of confidence (or even absolute confidence), even though we cannot be absolutely certain of their truth.  For so much of humanity, this isn’t even necessarily something that we are conscious of.  That is, there is so much we take for granted that may not necessarily be so.  Many of the things we take to be absolutely true are only relatively so, and many more aren’t even true in any sense.

We are conditioned by our families, by our culture and civilisation, by our teachers, friends and peers, by various media (books, television, Internet etc.), by religion, politics, economics, by various life experiences, by our experiences of gender and race, and even by simply being human (rather than say birds, fish or plants).  To even be aware of the depth of this conditioning is a rare trait in humanity at this time.  Even rarer is the soul who succeeds in both becoming aware of what is beyond their conditioning, and also fully embodying their humanity.  Just because one may become aware of their conditioning to some degree doesn’t by any means imply that it is easy to then transcend this conditioning.  As always, intellectual understanding and experiential realisation can be two completely different matters.

As someone who has invested quite significant amounts of time to comparing competing arguments on a number of topics, I have some appreciation for what is really required to be confident (let alone certain) on a topic of contention.  It is all too easy to be temporarily persuaded by a passionate argument and a carefully selected series of facts (or lies…).  To actually take the time and effort to pit competing arguments against each other to see who comes out on top is extremely time consuming.  You have to really care about something to be willing to do this yourself.

Hence, most of us either rely on trusted experts to direct our opinions, or we simply go with the whims of our personal biases, without awareness of how little we know about a topic.  As I am human like anyone else, I sometimes find myself saying something and then quickly realising that I cannot be confident that it is correct.  I therefore attempt to differentiate between subjects which I have more familiarity (and therefore more confidence in my opinions), and others in which I am still more open, in recognition of how little I truly know.

We human beings are not always as rational as we like to think we are:

I would really love to participate in creating positive change in the world, hence why I write.  When I first started researching and writing on spirituality and religion I quite naively thought that if I could lay out a series of well-thought out and well supported arguments, that most people would happily change their beliefs in accordance with the new evidence and arguments.  Of course, I now know that this simply isn’t the case.

Theoretically of course, all human beings are capable of changing their thoughts, beliefs (which are deeply entrenched thoughts), states of being (mental, emotional and spiritual states) and behaviour.  Realistically though, change is often much more difficult than we expect.  In my last article (on Trauma and the Ego[i]) I mentioned that even when we are at least partially aware of our own issues, it can feel like we are trying everything without succeeding.

Largely though, most humans are unaware how little they know.  We tend to prefer the confidence of false certainty to the uncertainty of the vast unknown.  Take religion for example.  How many religious believers have really, truly evaluated their sacred beliefs?  How many have truly sought to investigate the facts and compare different opinions to see who has the best explanations?  Even still, I often say: “it isn’t necessarily how much you read, but what you read”.  That is, even with a sincere attempt to come to understand a topic, one still has to encounter the right people, books or schools of thought at the right time.

Also, human beings tend to naturally gravitate to reading sources that validate their unconscious (or even conscious) biases.  Hence, I frequently discover when debating religion that others have never really read outside of their own tradition.  Taking Christianity as an example, most Christians only ever investigate other religions by reading the works of other Christians.  Likewise, they tend to only encounter criticisms of their own faith by reading works of other Christians (called apologists) seeking to refute such claims.

I have recently been re-reading my friend D.N. Boswell’s series of posts on Christmas and parallels in Egyptian religion (“In Winter Shall it Be”[ii]), along with various articles and videos on the subject by those who do not share our perspective.  It is extraordinary to see how much confidence is expressed by those who really seem to know almost nothing about the topic.  Even more extraordinary is the disparaging way they relate to those they disagree with, seemingly unaware of their own ignorance on the matter.

How much is this also so when it comes to other highly volatile and divisive subjects such as politics?  How many people have truly examined politics in enough detail to be confident of their opinions?  Furthermore, how many of us are truly aware of the depth of our own bias?  There are highly educated people on all sides and they can’t all be equally correct.  Hence, even when we are well versed in relevant facts and arguments, our own ability to translate evidence and reason into conclusions is still limited by our humanity, which naturally includes our own fallibility.

Consensus and alternative views:

There are many subjects in which there exists a common census or mainstream narrative, and other narratives that are considered to be alternative, fringe, conspiracy or crank views.  It is all too easy to make fun of people with alternative perspectives, such as believers in a flat-earth.  The sheer scale of conspiracy that would be required for this to be so is truly staggering.  It is likewise all too easy to get angry with neo-Nazis who deny the holocaust.  In this example we can clearly see that such people are simply motivated by irrational hatred.

However, there are countless examples of subjects in which there is a perspective that does not necessarily deserve to be considered a consensus, and also compelling alternative views that do not necessarily deserve to be dismissed as mere crank.  In giving some examples here I will no doubt find some areas of disagreement with my readers, as it is highly unlikely that anyone reading this will agree with all of my views.

The philosophy of metaphysical naturalism is considered to be a consensus worldview in Western science and medicine (which is really a field of science).  As such, all belief in spirituality and the supernatural is considered by many to be crank.  And yet, many people (such as myself) have had experiences that have convinced us of the reality of spirituality.  Likewise, we also find much evidence outside ourselves that appears to us to support our personal experiences.  As such we have no choice but to hold a perspective that goes against what some consider to be established facts.

On a related sub-topic, many scientists and philosophers have argued that Quantum Mechanics (QM for short) has unavoidable philosophical consequences, which refute the basic presumptions of materialism/metaphysical naturalism, and naturally imply support for a spiritual worldview.  However, whilst this view has been put forth by many prominent names in physics, there is a mainstream consensus that completely disagrees, and considers such things to be crank science or bad philosophy.

Regarding the history of planet earth, there has long been a consensus view that human civilisation has only really appeared in the last 6,000 or so years (therefore beginning around 4,000BCE).  This view points to Sumer, Egypt and India as examples of the earliest human civilisations.  However, there also exists a field of alternative archaeology, in which many have argued that human civilisation goes well back into the last Ice Age, and beyond.

One well-known example in this field is Graham Hancock[iii].  I first became aware of Graham Hancock when I encountered his book “Underworld”[iv] in a bookstore, back around 2005 (and this was actually the very discovery that started my thirst for reading).  In this book he argued that there was overwhelming evidence of a worldwide Ice-Age civilisation that largely disappeared in a global cataclysm at the end of the last Ice Age.  Hancock has argued that the end of the last Ice Age was spurred on by meteorites melting large ice sheets, bringing on a sudden rise in sea levels and destroying the cities that were built close to the shoreline.

On the front cover of Underworld was a photo of what is known as the “Yonaguni Monument”, an underwater rock formation that bears almost irrefutable signs of human design.  And yet, the consensus view appears to be that it is a natural formation.  As such, Hancock (along with others) is considered by many to be nothing more than a crank, a pseudo-archaeologist.  I obviously do not have the knowledge to be able to properly evaluate all of Hancock’s claims.  From my own casual observations however, I suspect he is correct about many things that go against the mainstream view, though probably not everything.  As such, I again find myself forced to go against what is considered to be a mainstream perspective and consider views that are commonly ridiculed as being unworthy of serious discussion.

Often all it takes is for someone to imply that a belief or perspective is hilariously stupid or motivated by hate, and such views are rejected without discussion.  Whilst this can be understandable in some cases, it is ultimately a dangerous precedent, as it prevents us from considering information that might shatter illusions that we consider to be truths. Hence, this is a bad habit we suffer from that prevents growth in many significant areas of human understanding.

I couldn’t count the amount of times I have seen people simply laugh off the topic of UFO’s, seemingly unaware of the body of evidence that exists, and the often absurd explanations that are used to reject them.  Likewise, those of us that do not believe in a historical Jesus have become accustomed to being denounced as ignorant and even hateful (Bart Ehrman has compared Mythicism to Holocaust denial[v]).

My point in all of this is that we cannot always rely upon mainstream consensus to provide us with sensible, well-educated and well-thought-out perspectives on life.  Human bias extends into all fields of study, from laymen to academics.  Whilst formal study has its undeniable benefits, there is also value to being at least partially self-educated, or at the very least, aware of views outside the mainstream.  There are countless laymen (and women) who have made valuable contributions to a field, despite lacking in formal qualifications.

We live in a curious age, whereby anybody can pull out a smartphone and do a quick search on any topic and have instant access to a wide variety of information and views.  Of course the Internet is full of garbage, sources that are simply not worth your time to read.  And yet, the Internet is also a treasure-chest, containing works by many brilliant but otherwise unknown authors (the perfect example being my friend D.N. Boswell).

So, my point here is not to suggest that all views are inherently equal.  Clearly there is a vast difference in the quality of different minds, in their ability to apply reason and provide evidence to support their contentions.  Anybody that has attempted to engage in any form of debating would know that not everybody argues on the same level.  Furthermore, many people seem to be completely unaware of the fact that they are not at the same level as others (see the Dunning-Kruger effect[vi]).

True wisdom begins with an acknowledgement of our own ignorance:

My point is simply that we need to be more cautious about assuming complete knowledge.  Let us not see human civilisation as standing at the pinnacle of thousands of years of growth, but rather as standing at the foundation of great possibilities.  That is, perhaps we are still at Kindergarten in the grand scheme of things, just starting out as a self-aware species, starting to learn about the grand mysteries of the Cosmos.  We can therefore benefit from humility in the face of the unfathomable richness and complexity of life.

Many great minds have noted that the beginning of wisdom is the recognition of how little we truly know, or even could know.  A human life of a mere 100 years is simply not long enough to gain complete knowledge (by regular means at least[vii]) of all the workings of the universe.

Perhaps therefore, we could all benefit by having more sympathy for those we disagree with.  Perhaps we can attempt to be more cautious about what we claim to be true.  Perhaps we can find awe in uncertainty, wonder in the continuous unfolding of the mystery of life.  Perhaps we can re-discover joy in becoming childlike, constantly learning more about this marvellous experience we call life.

May all beings find happiness, health and prosperity/contentment.

Peace.


[i] https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2020/12/01/trauma-suffering-conditioning-and-the-ego/?fbclid=IwAR24LxbwaVbhJn-yuxitlRvfx6s67_C7ANttsTYcSkjQqt7t0mvncRqqZU4.

[ii] https://mythodoxy.wordpress.com/2019/12/01/in-winter-shall-it-be/.

[iii] https://grahamhancock.com.

[iv] https://www.amazon.com/Underworld-Mysterious-Civilization-Graham-Hancock/dp/1400049512.

[v] “”There are people out there who don’t think the Holocaust happened, there wasn’t a lone JFK assassin and Obama wasn’t born in the U.S.,” Ehrman says. “Among them are people who don’t think Jesus existed.””

https://edition.cnn.com/2017/02/15/living/jesus-debate-man-versus-myth/index.html

[vi] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect.

[vii] There are of course many reported experiences of individuals gaining “intuitive knowledge”, either spontaneously or through various practices and methods.  There are even examples of individuals who have been claimed to have had access to almost infinite knowledge through spiritual means (for example Neem Karoli Baba, the master of Ram Dass and Krishna Dass, to name of a few of his well known students).

Trauma, suffering, conditioning and the ego:

For some time I have wanted to write about the way in which trauma often shapes the ego.  However, I have been wanting to express it in the gentlest way possible, in order to try to avoid being misunderstood to be blaming victims for their difficulty in letting go of the past.  Hence, I have waited until finding the words and examples that I feel can articulate what I am wishing to express here.  I have now found some examples that I think show my point quite well, which I will get to shortly.

Today I am going to offer some strong (perhaps even radical) perspectives on human suffering.  Whilst I acknowledge the valid need for us to sometimes spend time and energy exploring suffering, I naturally gravitate towards our potential to overcome it.  I wish to be clear however that this is intended out of compassion.  I am not intending on writing this to judge or look down upon others.  Rather, I have written with the hope that my brothers and sisters can find true lasting peace and freedom from suffering.

Also, I wish to make it clear that I too am on this journey.  I do not make the claim to have arrived finally at a destination from which I am free of suffering.  Like most human beings, I am a complex creature.  I have made much progress in many ways, and do experience largely continuous inner silence and peace, as well as regular deeper experiences of spiritual ecstasy.  And yet, there are many areas of my life in which I have gone round and round in circles, and haven’t yet made the progress I desire.  In fact, there are some areas of my life in which I have repeatedly struggled and suffered, over significant periods of time.

So, I am definitely included amongst those I write about here.  I am just as human as anyone else.  There is a big difference between understanding something intellectually, and integrating it into every facet of life experience.  Often we can believe something on the surface of our consciousness, but our body and subconscious mind hold conflicting beliefs, which can take some time to face.

As a personal example, I myself have long ignored my own needs to examine the content of my own subconscious, and perform what is often called “shadow work”.  I have only now very recently started engaging in this, and have found it deeply liberating.  However, my personal instinct is to make it clear that I don’t believe we should focus too long in examining pain and the past.  Rather, there are ways to quickly find lasting peace and to grow towards transcendent ideals.  Of course each and every individual must find their own balance in acknowledging and loving their own humanity, whilst discovering and integrating their own divinity.

In this article I’m not so much going to go into the actual processes involved, whether that be counselling and shadow work at the personal level, or finding and resting in pure awareness, expanding the consciousness and consciously directing the mind.  Rather, I’m going to talk in general terms about how to see human suffering from a spiritual perspective, whilst being gentle and compassionate towards the human level of personality.  I will however leave some notes and suggested links in the endnotes[i].

I am going to explain why on one hand it is not the fault of victims that their personality is shaped in a certain way from their traumatic experiences.  Simultaneously however, to live up to our potential, at some point we need to become conscious and make the decision to deliberately direct our lives, or consciously live from a place of peace.  Hence, we can express compassion to those that suffer, and yet also remind each other and ourselves that we have the potential to choose how we define ourselves and how we see the world.  I am not teaching victim blaming, rather quite the opposite: universal compassion.  And yet, we must see and acknowledge the ways in which we all create suffering for ourselves and for others around us.

The link between foster care and homelessness, amongst other social problems:

An excellent example (and analogy) to demonstrate this is of the strong link between children in foster care and homelessness.  A recent study showed that out of homeless youth, around 60% per cent had recently left foster care![ii]  I know many people that feel no compassion for the homeless, but rather see them as pathetic, suffering simply through their own power.  This study should blow the waters on such thinking.

Some of this is due to simple logistics, in that foster children often get their funding stopped when they turn 18, whilst most 18 year olds are currently living at home.  Some of this however is also due to the trauma experienced by foster children.  So many of them have been neglected or explicitly abused, physically, psychologically and sexually.  Every one of them is a precious being that deserves love and freedom, and yet most of them have been denied the basics of which so many of us take for granted.

The human psyche often responds in predictable ways to traumatic circumstances.  The fact that so many people that experience childhood trauma have problems with homelessness, unemployment, substance abuse, mental health issues and crime etc. clearly shows that at one level, it is not their fault.  And yet there is another level in which we all posses power to be free and live in joy.

It is not the fault of those that respond to difficult circumstances for not knowing how to move forward, heal their pain and evolve.  Our culture doesn’t excel at teaching these attributes, even in healthy and relatively “normal” households.  Many adults are essentially wounded children walking around in adult bodies, and without realising it they pass on these wounds to the next generation.

A complete understanding of reality often involves harmonizing seemingly opposite views[iii].   This is done not because of a desire to please everyone (which is impossible) or an unwillingness to take a side, but rather simply because the facts demand it.  Here we can see two different views that are both valid.  That is, on one level it is not the fault of children from foster care if/when they have problems with homelessness, mental health and substance abuse.  Equally though, each of them has the power to change their life, find healing and express their potential.

To truly help those that suffer we need to remember both sides.  That is, when dealing with those that are in deep pain we need to honour their humanity and recognise the depth of their trauma, and affirm that it is not their fault.  Equally though, we have to find a way to inspire them to consider their higher nature and the extraordinary potential that they possess.  Each precious human being living on the street has extraordinary untapped potential to transcend his or her suffering and thrive.  Every single one of them needs unconditional love.  Every single one of them has a natural inherent worth that they may be largely unaware of.  It is my hope that when we see those who do not know their value or have not been valued by others, that we are motivated to make them aware of the value that is their birth right.

I truly believe that there is no psychological pain that cannot be healed.  I wouldn’t be surprised if some people disagree with me there, and I wouldn’t necessarily blame them.   It can certainly feel like you have no choice but to feel (and think) the way you do when you have suffered injustice (and again, I affirm this as being normal for our humanity).  However, I have had the great blessing of experiencing a degree of the underlying Self[iv] of pure consciousness, and I have to tell people that in the depth of true peace and love, there are no problems.  In the depth of spiritual peace there is truly nothing to forgive.

Of course in our humanity there are countless challenges, and in practical matters there are consequences to misdeeds.  However, in the depth of the Self there is only overflowing love, and this love is fulfilling in a way that cannot be described.  Again, I am not the only person to experience this, and I invite my readers to seek this experience themselves in a way that suits their nature.

Domestic violence and children of alcoholic and/or abusive parents:

Similarly, it is common for victims of domestic violence to find themselves in abusive relationships over and over again, often returning repeatedly to the same abusive relationship[v].  Likewise, children of alcoholic parents often find themselves in adult relationships with alcoholics or people with other serious issues[vi].  So, we can see that on one level it is not so much their fault, as the human ego responds in fairly predictable ways to abusive situations.  Human beings unconsciously gravitate to circumstances in which they are familiar, even if those circumstances are deeply unhealthy.

Social workers and police often feel frustration that they see the same people suffering in abusive relationships overs a long period of time.  That is, someone is in an abusive relationship, they seek assistance and get out of it, and yet two years later they are back with the same partner in the same dynamic, or in a new relationship with a very similar dynamic again.  Again though, we need to offer unconditional love and compassion to such people, affirming to them that it is not their fault, and yet simultaneously try and find ways to inspire them to find their own value and potential.

Cultural conditioning and the link between poverty and crime:

We can also see many other subjects in a similar light.  In many parts of the world children are taught by their parents to hate people from other cultural, national, religious or political groups.  In many respects it is therefore not their fault when they grow up to be adults with deeply negative biases and they project these biases onto the world at large.  And yet, we human beings are meant to awaken from our unconscious behaviour and take ownership, healing our past and looking at what is truly healthy for ourselves and for life as a whole.

Can I suggest we even extend this compassion to those that are raised in communities with high degrees of poverty and crime, who themselves turn to crime[vii].  That is, whilst compassion and upliftment must obviously extend to victims of crime and abuse, we must find love that is great enough to extend to all, even the perpetrators of such things.  Each and every one of them is too a precious being that has gone astray.  A great number of them have also been victims earlier on in life, and a great number of them have lived through deep poverty and a wide divide between rich and poor.

Of course, I am not suggesting that there should be no consequences for misdeeds.  However, the consequences can stand without judgment in our hearts.  Even the worst, sickest beings have the potential for good within them.  I do not believe that anybody is beyond redemption, though I accept that large numbers will not achieve it within their current lifetime.  For some, this level of compassion may seem like too high a standard to aim towards, an unrealistic goal which is beyond the capacity of humanity.  Without meaning to diminish the pain that so many feel, I have to share the indescribable peace I have found, and I know that many others also experience.  When you too discover this peace for yourself, you get a glimpse of our potential.

Unconscious behaviour and conditioning:

In recent times Eckhart Tolle has done a brilliant job of explaining how our conception of self (ego) drives much of our thoughts and behaviour.  Human beings come to define themselves by the things they do, their hobbies, the roles they play and functions they perform, by the color of their skin, their gender, sexuality, religion, political views, sports teams they support etc.  As such, these self-definitions filter our entire perception of life, and influence and motivate our behaviour, often without our awareness of it.

Hence, much of human thinking and behaviour is governed by unconscious beliefs and motivations.  If these beliefs and motivations are to be made conscious, then their dysfunctional nature can be quickly and easily seen.  For example, when someone has identified themself with the role of parenthood (that is, taken it beyond the needs and responsibilities of their position) they often find it hard to let go of their role as the child grows into an adult.  It is common for parents to relate to their children in an adult-child manner, even when the child is fully-grown and independent.  In this case, the parent feels an unconscious need to sustain their identity, and because it is no longer an authentic need, it creates problems with their relationship with their children.

In such relationships there are often unconscious thoughts such as “I know what is best for you, and I will try to make you feel guilty until you realise that I know best and do what I want”, or “You need to be successful, so that I can be successful through you”, or “I need you to need me, because I don’t know who I would be if I wasn’t needed”. When these things are spoken out loud we can clearly see that they are not healthy.  And yet these kind of unconscious thoughts are practically the norm in human relationships.  Just to be clear though, this is only one small example, and I don’t simply wish to pick on parents of adult children (one could just as easily give unhealthy examples from the opposite perspective).

Much human behaviour is driven by unconscious beliefs and feelings of lack, of separation from others (and life itself) and vulnerability.  It is again much easier to see this in other people than in oneself, but ultimately it is far more important to recognise and address it in yourself.  It all starts with becoming aware of your habitual thought processes, becoming aware of your emotional states and repetitive behaviour.  This is not an easy task but it is ultimately an essential one, for without awareness of these things one will continue to suffer unnecessarily throughout their life.  It is common for these issues to get worse and worse throughout our life, and I suspect that much of what we consider inevitable aging is as a result of deepening unconsciousness throughout the years.

The metaphysical Law of Attraction, cognitive bias and body language etc:

In modern spiritual circles we often hear of a concept called “Law of Attraction” (LOA henceforth).  This concept is founded upon the perspective that there is (ultimately) only consciousness, and that all Creation exists as vibration within one eternal Divine Mind[viii].  The LOA explains that everything that someone experiences in their life is effectively an extension of their thoughts, in that their thoughts create an energetic vibration that has tangible creative power, and draws to them experiences that are in harmony with them.  Hence it is often said in modern spiritual circles that “you create your own reality”.

I don’t want to spend too much time here discussing the ins and outs of this theory, though I plan to go into detail about it at some point.  However, I will state that regardless of your worldview (whether you are an atheist/naturalist, Christian, Buddhist or anything else) there is a certain degree to which some of the fundamentals of the LOA are undeniably true.  Perhaps we can say that any disagreements over the theory of LOA can only reasonably be over the extent to which it operates.  That is, certain fundamentals of LOA can be seen to be true even in a materialist worldview, and thus even if you don’t accept the metaphysical aspects of the theory.

Emotions are largely the bodies felt response to thinking (though they can also be an instinctual response to external circumstances).  That is, a positive thought of love produces an emotion (or feeling) that we identify as being the feeling of love.  When you think fearful thoughts as a response to a life circumstance you experience a corresponding emotional response (that is the feeling of fear).  When you think strong negative thoughts towards someone (like hate) you feel the emotional correspondence of hate.

There are chemical responses in the body that correspond with our emotions.  Positive thoughts create specific responses in the nervous and endocrine systems that feel pleasant and also aid good health, helping to prevent disease and assist the regeneration of cells.  On a psychological level, with practice one can consciously achieve a positive emotional state by consciously directing their thoughts, and feel greater clarity and vitality in the process.

When you are feeling positive there are unavoidable signs in your body language that transmits your mood to others, both consciously and unconsciously.  That is, whilst people can often attempt to disguise their true thoughts and feelings with their words, body language never lies, and we all can sense this.

Many people unconsciously believe that their emotions are effectively beyond their control, and are simply natural and unavoidable responses to what life throws at them.  In truth however, five different people can have five very different mental and emotional responses to the same circumstances.  This shows that psychological conditioning and mental/emotional habits shape the way in which we respond to life.

Whilst much of our individual conditioning occurs originally at a subconscious level, one can learn to recondition themselves in accordance with higher intentions.  That is, one can examine the thought processes (both conscious and unconscious) that generate our emotional responses, and – over a period of time – change them.  Hence, our mental and emotional states are absolutely within our own power; only that a significant amount of self-discipline (and time) is required for most people to attain mastery of their psychological states (I for one am still working on it).

When people identify themselves with traumatic experiences and injustices, this subconscious identification filters through into all of their thoughts, beliefs and emotions.  Through body language, others that they encounter pickup various cues as to the psychological projections of the other, which affects how they respond.  Hence, different people get different responses from the same person, depending on their body language.

Furthermore, through cognitive bias we often misinterpret others behaviour in accordance with our own projections.  That is, even if another does not react to our own negativity, we can often perceive them as hostile towards us when they are in fact being kind.  I have witnessed a number of people who perceive others to be in conflict with them, when in truth it has been almost entirely their own projection.

It is generally very difficult to persuade someone that their perspective on life is wrong, when they perceive themselves to be constantly experiencing evidence of the reality of their perspective.  Once the ego has been conditioned in a particular way, it naturally perceives following experiences in a light that appears to corroborate its pre-existing biases.  For those of us that are open to (or believers in) the possibility that consciousness is the one and only substance of reality, one can see that life actually does give you direct feedback of the content of your thoughts.

Again though, regardless of whether or not you believe in (or are open to) a metaphysical “Law of Attraction”, most of its principles can still be agreed upon by Christians, atheists or anyone else for that matter.  The question is simply upon to what degree and to what extent these principles influence the response of life to ones inner state.

Spiritual growth, Shadow work and balance:

In my opinion true growth should involve both a deepening awareness of ones spiritual nature, and a facing of ones human nature.  One needs to both find the silence of pure awareness, and also shine the light of awareness upon the subconscious to discover what is hiding there and allow it to heal.  There are unfortunately countless examples of people who have developed spiritually, but failed to grow in their humanity.  This can often be quite a dangerous combination, particularly in the case of charismatic leaders.

It is in fact quite possible to have significant degrees of higher spiritual experiences without healing more basic human psychological disturbances.  Hence, I suggest both resting in pure awareness and also deliberately applying the mind, both forward in pursuit of what is wanted and also in complete acceptance of what has been and what is.

I have often said that balance is a concept that human beings are still only beginning to explore.  When we try to move towards worldly success we often neglect our psychological and spiritual lives.  When we pursue a spiritual search we often neglect our worldly needs (this guy, right here…).  When we aspire towards humility we sometimes loose self-confidence and self-esteem.  When we aspire towards confidence and power we often lose humility.


It is difficult to go in two directions at once.  What often happens is that we go in one direction and pull the opposite pole of ourselves out of balance.  What we must therefore aspire to do is expand ourselves in one direction at a time, without pulling other elements of our self and life out of balance at the same time.  Ideally, we want to expand in all directions, recognising the immediate needs of our unique circumstances.

It is vital that spiritual aspirants are conscious of their humanity and the authentic needs and priorities of their physical experience.  Spirituality can bring the experience of transcendent peace and love, and also otherworldly knowledge and intuition.  It is unfortunately common for human beings to mistake the presence of these experiences for evidence of divine perfection, and consider themselves to be above and beyond the flaws of humanity.  There needs to be a balance between finding Divinity, in which all human struggles can be seen in a different context, and also being fully present within our humanity.

If someone only pursues spirituality alone, then one can easily ignore or deny the pressing needs of their family or their self.  This may be the need to face ones own anger, fear or unexpressed desire, the responsibility to care for the greater needs of their children or address financial shortages.

Alternatively, psychological work without a greater spiritual context can be a bottomless pit.  It can be difficult to explore ones own pain without the mind identifying with it, and without the mind becoming addicted to the process.  There has to be some ideal of an end-point or limit, after which the exploration can be dropped and one can move on.  Ultimately though, most human beings do not resolve their issues within their life, and only drop their psychological baggage when the physical vehicle is itself left behind.

Whilst the human experience can be extremely enjoyable, it is also immensely challenging.  The greater the challenge however, the greater the potential for growth.  With the difficulty of being human comes the opportunity to develop wisdom, compassion and strength.  And of course, to those who can align with the flow of life the human experience can be filled with joy, excitement adventure and fulfilment.  

Unconditional compassion, regardless of whether (or not) we can clearly see that someone has created their own suffering:

I would suggest we extend compassion to all that suffer, regardless of whether we can look at someone and see that it is clear that they are the cause of their own suffering.  Lets image two people – Person A and B – in a close relationship of some sort (partners, friends, family, work colleagues etc.).  It is common for Person A to be deeply aware of what is going on under the surface of Person B, and to be able to see clearly a path ahead for them to heal and move forward.  And yet, Person A is often unaware of what is going on under the surface of their own consciousness, and likewise cannot see their own path ahead for healing and life progress.  And yet Person B could look at Person A and easily see what is bubbling just below the surface in their subconscious.

When Person A looks at Person B it appears as if Person B is simply creating their own suffering by perpetuating the past and refusing to accept what is.  The problems that Person B suffers with can appear to be easily resolvable to Person A, and they think they could easily step into their shoes and “fix” their life.  And it often looks as though Person B makes little or no effort to resolve their own problems.  And yet, when it comes to their own issues, Person A feels like they have tried everything and cannot break free (yet Person B feels the same way about Person A’s problems).

It is always easier to see problems and solutions for other people, than for yourself.  This realisation should bring humility, but also compassion equally for others and for ourselves.  This level of compassion can be hard to cultivate simply from the psychological level, but it can also emerge spontaneously with the grace of spiritual awakening.  Equal parts of self effort and divine grace are required for true compassion to flower.

The reality and unreality of psychological suffering:

If we were to say to someone heavily conditioned by suffering “Your suffering is not real, you are now creating suffering for yourself and those around you”, this would likely be perceived as the most offensive thing we could possibly say.  And yet, at some point, this is actually the most compassionate thing we can possibly say.  And also, at some point it becomes necessary to say this for the benefit of those around them.

Of course, suffering is real in the sense that people have the experience of it.  The human psyche does not heal by denial and repression, but rather by love, compassion and understanding, which need to be directed towards it.  The unreality of suffering however can only be seen once you experience pure, naked awareness, at which point even the ego itself is seen as (ultimately) unreal.  Experiences are only fleeting, they come and go; therefore they are only ever relatively true.  For something to be absolutely true it needs to be true always, for everyone and everything, in every circumstance.

In pure naked awareness there is no suffering, no unconscious and uncontrolled thought, and a natural and unfading peace (ananda), which to some can be even considered bliss or ecstasy[ix].  From this perspective, we directly will thought into existence, which therefore also directly wills emotion, as emotion is the feeling that corresponds with thought.  This naked awareness and peace is unchanging and ever present, even in the most unpleasant circumstances.

At one level it is certainly is natural (in a sense) for people to be attached to their perception of themselves.  This is simply the unspoken assumption, which is ubiquitous in humanity.  This is true of those that perceive themselves as successful and happy, as well as those that perceive themselves as unsuccessful and unhappy.

Traumatic experiences pierce deeply into the consciousness and color the ego’s perception of everything that follows it.  It is thus at the normal human level quite natural that victims of trauma will identify themselves with this trauma.  Again, it is not their fault that at the unconscious level these things leave such a heavy imprint upon them, to the point that in some cases they cannot perceive reality clearly following it.

To a traumatised ego, their trauma is (somehow) precious, in that it is who they think they are.  Again, this is much the same as how someone who identifies themselves strongly with a conservative, orthodox view of a particular religion acts extremely defensively in response to criticisms of their faith of choice.  If someone is to imply that their faith is false they feel personally attacked, as if their very existence depends upon it.

The ego believes it has the right to suffer:

Likewise, it seems that many people consider their suffering to be intrinsic to their very being.  “Don’t I have the right to be upset?”, or “This person doesn’t deserve my forgiveness” are common words and thoughts from those that are deeply attached to their suffering.  It is often the case that trauma victims identify themselves completely with their suffering.  The idea that they can let go of their suffering can even seem offensive, or threatening, as if it would mean that they would become nothing and lose everything precious to them.  Hence, human beings often feel that they deserve to be unhappy, deserve to identify themselves as a victim, identify themselves with the trauma.

This reasoning seems to make sense to the ego, within normal human logic.  And yet, from a deeper perspective it is completely illogical and deeply toxic.  These rationalisations are natural for humanity in its current egoic state, and yet from the deeper perspective they are madness.  Again, I want to make it clear that in using strong language (toxic, madness etc.) to refer to standard human behaviour, I do not mean to harshly judge anybody, particularly those that suffer.  The opposite is my intention; rather this is expressed out of compassion.  This requires the greatest of sensitivity.  Those that suffer from trauma need understanding and compassion.  For a traumatised person to feel that they are being called mad would be the most offensive thing.

I have seen people who are so attached to their suffering that they project it onto everything and everyone.  They seem to attract conflict wherever they go, and often unconsciously create it, whilst simultaneously perceiving themselves as the victim.  You can be minding your own business, but if you are around them they (unconsciously) try to make themselves a victim of you, or they believe they have to dominate you before you dominate them.  Such people cannot see outside their perception and see how much suffering they create.  On one hand you want to make them aware of their personal power, and also make them aware that now they are the ones inflicting the suffering.  However, sometimes it is not appropriate to do so.

And yet, at some point we must call it as it is, out of compassion.  If I failed to do so I would be doing others a disservice by leaving the bar far to low.  I have raised this point in other articles before, and I wish to say a few more things regarding this.  Different people have vastly different needs in regards to where they set the bar.  Some people need to spend time exploring where they are, as well as setting high future standards to move towards.  For such people, trying to immediately achieve super high standards emphasises the discomfort of where they are, and creates a feeling of pressure to repress their current circumstances.  It can also create a feeling of inadequacy for failing to meet unrealistic standards.

Alternatively though, there are others who can quickly meet high standards (dwelling in pure awareness and/or other states of being involving expanded consciousness, and deliberate, conscious, positive projection of mind).  For such people, focusing solely on human psychological norms means setting the bar too low, which as I keep saying, is doing them a disservice.

So, when I talk about raising the bar it is meant in a compassionate sense.  Knowing what we are capable of, it is a disservice not to encourage others to seek their own connection to strength, power, clarity, inspiration, peace, love and joy.  Again though, different people have different needs.  Some need to have the bar raised slowly and progressively.  Others need to be inspired by the lofty heights of the potential to which they can aspire.  Hence, teachers need to be able to discern the needs of their students.  Likewise, students themselves need to be able to discern their own needs, and discern which teacher/s is/are right for them at different times.

Social norms in response to conflict and misfortune:

In the wake of an upsetting event or circumstance, it is not hard to find others around that will validate your anger or pain.  Generally, if you go to share you feelings with others they will add to it with their own stories, which trigger their own feelings.  Obviously it is healthy to express our thoughts and feelings rather than keep them bottled up inside.  No genuine spiritual teacher that I am aware of deliberately teaches repression, and obviously I do not either (though this may happen unwillingly with some teachers/teachings, and certainly there are many repressive religious and spiritual traditions).  However, we need to understand that we can express how we are feeling and thinking about a situation with the intent to look for solutions, and with focus upon how we prefer to think, feel and act.

To give an example, it is very common for both men and women to respond to a partner leaving them by complaining about their ex-partner.  That is, whilst they themselves did not want to leave the relationship, they often respond to the pain by talking (and thinking) repeatedly about all the things that annoyed them in their ex.  I would suggest a healthy response to the pain of separation (being “dumped”) is to acknowledge: “I am feeling pain, I am feeling rejection, I am feeling loss, I am feeling frustration”.  Instead, it is more common for people to respond with “That bastard/bitch, I can’t believe they would do this to me.  After all their crap I put up with.  I can’t believe I tolerated them for so long etc.”.  This is practically the standard human response, and yet it is deeply unhealthy.

The truth is, nobody actually enjoys being upset.  By definition, it feels bad.  And yet…the ego can actually come to enjoy pain, in a strange sort of way.  Anything that creates strong feelings within us can become addictive, even if those strong feelings are unpleasant.  Certainly this is true of thinking, speaking and acting in such ways as to create strong negative emotions.  That is, many people are addicted to unhappiness, anger, fear, pain, jealousy, spite, unforgiveness etc.

Again though, nobody actually enjoys the feeling of these emotions.  Rather, this addiction to negativity is an unconscious phenomenon that slides under the radar of the conscious mind.  It is common for someone to be convinced that everyone around them is causing their unhappiness, unaware that it is they, themselves who is doing so.  In such cases, often the person unconsciously rejects assistance from others (not being aware of their own need for help).  Such people will often reject upliftment being offered freely, preferring instead to (unconsciously) attempt to pull others down instead.  Such people will often prefer others to suffer with them rather than be lifted out of their suffering.  The ego is a strange thing, it often prefers hate to love, pain to pleasure and bondage to freedom.

As such, some people find themselves feeling strong resistance to suggestions that they can be free, and can find happiness.  For many people the idea of psychological and spiritual freedom sounds completely fanciful, unrealistic and unattainable.  In fact, many people immediately become suspicious of anyone preaching love and peace, suspecting them of possessing ulterior motives.  Of course, there are many examples of frauds, narcissists and madmen (and women) in the fields of psychology and spirituality who have somewhat justified this cynicism.  Hence, we have the need for leaders with integrity and honesty.

Everybody has the capacity to live in a very different way to our current norms.  Without exception, everyone has the capacity to find true, lasting peace, love, freedom, strength and self-empowerment.  As someone that is blessed with the experience of overflowing spiritual peace and love, it is only natural that I wish to share this with others.  This peace is not something unique to myself; I am not special to have this within myself.  I lived most of my life without an awareness of this, like most people.  And yet, it was there all along just waiting to be awakened, waiting for me to be made aware of it.  Everyone has this within themselves, and it is my genuine desire for everyone to find their way in.

Western approaches to the mind and closing thoughts:

Again I wish to make it quite clear that I have no formal qualifications on anything I speak on, and this is true regarding psychology, psychotherapy, medicine etc.  I have great admiration for many features of Western science and medicine.  I will openly state however that I feel Western thought to have a long way to go to properly understand consciousness.  Certainly, we have been trained to expect a magic pill to relieve us of our symptoms, without ever really looking beneath the surface to find the cause of our disease.

I feel that Western psychology doesn’t yet acknowledge the full capacity of human beings to achieve inner silence and then consciously direct their mind at will.  Obviously this is a high ideal and far from the normal state of consciousness of most humans.  However, we are capable of living this way, and I would even suggest that we are meant to live this way.  However, we have not been taught to operate like this, but rather have been conditioned by nature and nurture to operate at far less than our capacity.

There is of course a need to meet people where they are, and for many people to gradually, step by step lead them towards this goal.  I do wish to comment though that I feel that the current Western approach tends to set the bar way too low, often going round and round in circles rather than moving forward.  Rather than merely exploring our trauma and emotions, we need to have sight of where we are heading, in leaving behind the past and moving on.

Again however, I am not saying that these concepts are completely foreign to Western psychology; only that currently they are well understated.  Of course, if anyone is suffering from serious depression, anxiety, trauma or other mental health issues I strongly recommend you seek professional assistance.  However, my personal recommendation is for everyone to find a means of exploring consciousness that is suitable for them.  Essentially I am suggesting that whether or not someone is experiencing a degree of mental illness, that we should all consciously practice a form of meditation, and also cultivate and direct our thoughts deliberately.  For those seeking help through formal Western means I suggest also supplementing your treatment with meditative practices.

With growing acceptance of neuroplasticity, things are progressing towards accepting the power of consciousness to rewire the brain and body.  However, Western philosophy is still largely ruled by metaphysical naturalism, which views consciousness as an epiphenomenon.  Furthermore, many Western philosophers do not believe in free will (though of course, they are not the only ones).

I would hope that people of varying religious and philosophical persuasions could accept the ideals to which I speak here.  That is, regardless of what you believe regarding whether or not humans possess a soul, what the nature of consciousness and the mind are, and what the nature of reality is, we can agree on certain features of the human experience and of our potential.

We need to make peace with where we are and show absolute love and acceptance to ourselves and to others.  It is helpful however to have an understanding of what we are capable of, and how we can move forward towards a healthier, more enjoyable life experience for all.

May all beings find love, health, prosperity and freedom.

Peace.


[i] For addressing our human needs and human psychology from a spiritual perspective, I highly recommend Teal Swan (https://www.youtube.com/user/TheSpiritualCatalyst).  Teal Swan cops a lot of unfair flack; there is a certain trend amongst some to be overly cynical towards any successful spiritual teacher.  I recommend you simply watch some of her videos and make up your own mind.  She is brilliant, hyper intelligent, and offers great depth, love and compassion.

She is very good at finding the main points in large, complex topics.  Whilst she does talk about general spiritual development, she also specialises in teaching an integrative approach to personal growth, where she is at pains to emphasise the need to be kind towards ones weaknesses, and validate ones thoughts and emotions.  Her videos on shadow work, integration/fragmentation are excellent, as are most that I have seen.

For realising ones Self as pure awareness, I personally recommend Eckhart Tolle (https://www.youtube.com/user/EckhartTeachings – though personally I prefer to read Tolle rather than listen to him), Mooji (https://www.youtube.com/user/Moojiji) and Rupert Spira (https://www.youtube.com/user/rupertspira).  All three are excellent and effectively teach the same message, but through the vehicle of their own personality and vocabulary.

There are accusations against Mooji that have been highly publicised in the last two years, though as far as I am aware we only have anonymous and/or second and third-hand reports.  I will speak on this at some point in detail; for the time being I would suggest we remember that people are innocent until proven otherwise, and his satsangs and meditations are extraordinary.  There are of course many other teachers in a similar vein with differing qualities.  There are other good ones (Gangaji for an excellent female example: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuu1iS63Zl-57fceuzoPzZw); also there are many that I’m not so drawn to personally.

For expansion of consciousness I personally recommend traditional Yogic techniques/practices, or simply any regular meditative practice.  Serious spiritual seekers may adopt a routine of some form of Kundalini Yoga (not necessarily a practice that defines itself as such – simply any combination of powerful, classical Hatha Yoga techniques, such as Kriya Yoga).

I would personally caution that Kundalini Yoga practices are life changing, and once the awakening process has started I don’t think it can be reversed.  Kundalini is a wonderful blessing to a saint, but can bring extraordinary challenges to otherwise everyday people living a more typical modern Western lifestyle.  I don’t want to present the impression that Kundalini Yoga is dangerous.  However, I would recommend that potential practitioners take seriously the traditional recommendations on preliminary work before undertaking practices that are deliberately designed to awaken Kundalini.

The modern practice of Holotropic Breathwork is extraordinarily powerful, and can induce intense experiences in a short period of time.  Again though, this practice can very quickly induce powerful awakening of Shakti, and is not for the faint of heart.

For deliberate, conscious direction of the mind, I have a number of recommendations.  I find the channelled teachings of Esther Hicks (Abraham being the name given to the group consciousness that is claimed to speak through her) to be brilliant on many levels.  I recommend reading one of her books (or listening to the audiobook – here’s one example: https://www.hayhouse.com/money-and-the-law-of-attraction-5) for an in-depth and cohesive approach to applying deliberate positive thinking.

There are many great techniques for the deliberate direction of thought.  Many people find affirmation to be very powerful.  Here’s a playlist on YouTube from a man named Kenneth Soares (https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWWG_PHempixZFCsy2w-G90VNddo8UjbG).  Also, mantra repetition and any form of spiritual music involving the cultivation of divine love can be very powerful and beneficial.  I personally love Deva Premal (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4IPMSvBj9G3XbvDx3ior8g), Snatam Kaur (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb0Q10jLbp021EwdBvhK8nA) to name a couple.  I also (believe it or not) really enjoy some modern, evangelical Christian praise and worship (though I do not necessarily like their theology or politics).  An example would be Upperroom (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCrxpO3RnaL-RbPbmB3TQCw).

[ii] I first heard about this from an episode of Q&A on the ABC (here in Australia), which featured a young man named Corey White, who works as an advocate for foster kids.  His story is nothing short of brutal; hence my highest respect for this man to have come through and attempt to find solutions. https://www.abc.net.au/qanda/abuse-foster-care-and-taxes/10648728  

I also found the following articles: 

https://www.ahuri.edu.au/policy/ahuri-briefs/risk-of-homelessness-for-young-people-exiting-foster-care

Also:  https://www.homelesshub.ca/about-homelessness/legal-justice-issues/foster-care

This last article discusses how out of homeless youth, about 60% had recently been evicted from foster care:  https://junkee.com/youth-homelessness-foster-care/154016

[iii] I recently published an article on this very point: https://jameshiscoxblogs.wordpress.com/2019/07/15/to-see-the-big-picture-you-have-to-be-able-to-consider-the-validity-of-many-different-perspectives/.

[iv] Please note my careful wording here.  I do not claim to have had the full experience of Self Realisation.  I consider my own experiences to be merely a taste of what is truly there.  There is no question for me that many people have genuinely experienced far more of this than myself, and my own experiences continue to grow and deepen.

[v] Here is a link to a domestic violence hotline which states that victims of domestic violence return to their abuser an average of seven times before leaving: https://www.thehotline.org/2017/02/16/supporting-someone-returning-to-abusive-relationship/

[vi] For some examples, see the following: https://www.verywellmind.com/children-of-alcoholics-and-intimate-relationships-66556  and: https://www.verywellmind.com/common-traits-of-adult-children-of-alcoholics-66557

[vii] See the following for some examples: https://www.arcgis.com/apps/MapJournal/index.html?appid=5508484140a84023a1e2d8b080e14d0a

and: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crime_in_South_Africa

[viii] A common view in spirituality, often termed “Monistic Idealism” in modern Western philosophy.

[ix] There are differing opinions as to whether or not ananda should be considered merely peace or happiness, or whether the terms bliss and ecstasy are appropriate.

To see the big picture, you have to be able to consider the validity of many different perspectives:

Truth isn’t always found halfway between two competing perspectives; but it often is”.

I have written a number of times before on relative truth vs. absolute truth, and what I wish to say today is built upon that.  For the benefit of anyone that doesn’t know my perspective on this already, here is a quick summary of my conclusions relating to the use of relative and absolute truth:

–           There are many undeniable examples of situations that naturally demand the use of relative conceptions of truth.

–           Likewise, there are many undeniable examples of situations that naturally demand the use of absolute conceptions of truth.

–           Furthermore, there are many undeniable examples of situations that naturally demand we accept an absolute truth as a big picture or ideal, with innumerable relative truths enveloped within it.

For me, the above is simply common sense.  There are however, many people that will dispute my conclusions here.  Without going too deeply into the topic here today, I will give just a few brief examples to make my case.

Firstly, regarding relativity, personal tastes in food, music, art, theatre & movies, interest in particular sports, perceptions of temperature, beauty etc. are obviously relative.  That is, one cannot clearly state in objective terms that one musical artist is outright better than another in terms of their overall musicality.  You may state that one is objectively better in technical terms (i.e. their technical abilities, their use of musical theory/harmony/rhythm etc.); however superior technical ability doesn’t always lead to superior musicality (and often it leads to the opposite).  Hence, this should simply be common sense.

Likewise, it is not hard to find examples of absolutes.  A rock is a solid (at least in it’s macroscopic sense), not a gas or liquid.  An on/off light switch is either on or off.  Basic mathematical equations only have one correct answer.  One can of course find an endless list of examples.  Again, this should simply be common sense.

Finally, if one seeks to form a big picture view of science (i.e. a “theory of everything”), one would have to seek to harmonise many different fields of study, that naturally at some point present contradictions.  For example, it is well known in physics that there are problems in harmonising general relativity with quantum theory.  Due to some incompatibilities between them, it is generally accepted that they are both only relatively truth (i.e. neither of them is a complete, absolutely true description of reality).

Hence, scientists (and philosophers) are seeking a greater description of reality that harmonises all the smaller perspectives. So, scientists hold the conception of an absolute truth (which they are seeking), but they recognise that their current theories are only relatively true.

The only real attempts I’ve seen at refuting this perspective is that a number people I have discussed this with have attempted to deny the existence of relative truths by dismissing them as “useful lies”; i.e. things that aren’t true, but are useful nevertheless.  Personally I find this to be simply playing semantics.  Simply renaming relative truth doesn’t refute it.

I have also heard individuals trying to deride this perspective by labelling it post-modernism or cultural-Marxism.  I would simply respond that this perspective pre-dates and exists independent of both post-modernism and Marxism[i], and can just as easily lend itself to their critique.  I am not condoning the abandonment of all absolute values (i.e. pure relativism).  However, it should be obvious that there is room for some relativity in our worldview.

Hence, I consider all I have written above to easily verifiable.  When you think it is through, it is common sense.  We all make use of both relative and absolute concepts of truth in our practical lives. However, in theoretical matters it is often overlooked, which brings me to the topic of today’s post.

I believe that to be able to see the world as it really is, you must be able to consider multiple perspectives, and integrate truths from multiple views into a larger understanding.  Again, whilst there are indeed examples where truth lies largely (or even entirely) on one side of a debate, it is far, far more common to find that both sides of a dispute have at least some partial truth on their side.  This is not to say that it is always 50/50; rather it can be 60/40, 70/30, 80/20 etc.

Please note that I do not take this approach in order to try to please everybody.  In fact, it often has the exact opposite affect.  It is no secret that my personal spiritual/religious and political views generally lean left-of-centre.  However, I find things on both sides of religion and politics that I believe can be improved.  I have found in the past that my opinions are sometimes no more popular amongst those also on the left than those on the right.  So, my view is not motivated by an attempt at popularity.

Likewise, it is not simply sitting on the fence, or being unable to make up ones mind.  Obviously in the case of a political election you have to make decisions as to whom you choose to vote for.  However, in general life we are under no obligation to “pick a side” and run with it.  Life is not football; we do not simply have to choose who to support and then stick with them through thick and thin.

Taking note of my original summary of relative and absolute truths, I would hope my readers understand I am not supporting full-blown relativism.  That is, we need not reject all notions of objectivity and declare all things equal, all views equally true or anything like that.  Likewise, not all views deserve equal treatment.  Quite simply, there are certain views (like the “Flat-Earth” theory), which by their very nature do not deserve equal treatment.  However, there are often theories and perspectives that are considered well out of the mainstream, which are indeed worthy of consideration.

I have noted before that human beings are often way to quick to consider themselves to have reached a final conclusion.  Our egos often find comfort in false certainty, believing we already understand something when in fact we do not.  We look into the world and witness a situation unfolding, and prematurely conclude that it is always so.

Furthermore, confirmation bias leads us to color our perception of the world in such a way as to look for evidence of things we already believe to be true.  Even in terms of normal psychology, this leads us to misperceive reality and take relative and limited truths to be far-reaching, and even absolute.

In some spiritual circles there is even talk that reality is structured in such a way as to (objectively) bring us evidence of the things we think about, so that our beliefs becoming self-fulfilling prophecies, with the universe constantly giving us evidence to support them.  Even in a materialistic worldview it can be seen that our preconceived beliefs project out into the world and affect our relationships, our health, our happiness, and our overall success in life.

So, I would argue that in many – if not most – topics of discussion and dispute one can raise, there are at least some valid points to be found on more than one side.  I will give some quite basic examples below to demonstrate how this can operate to allow people to hold grossly biased views.

Starting with politics, it is rare that those on the left and right sides of the political spectrum agree with each other on anything other than very basic general concepts.  It is rarer still that they are civil and polite in their discourse with one another, as both sides view each other as the cause of the problems of the world.  How many of us can enter a political debate without being swept up in the emotion of it?  I have been trying for some time, at times succeeding, but often failing.

However, if we step back a bit from our personal bias we find that most commonly each side has some areas where they are correct, and others where they are incorrect.  Certainly, the further to the extreme ends of the spectrum you travel, the more pronounced this becomes.

Karl Marx took examples of wealthy and powerful people taking advantage of common people as his springboard for his complete reaction against individual wealth and power, in favour of communal possession and state power.  Ayn Rand did the exact opposite, using her experience of the horrors of full-blown socialism in Russia as a springboard for complete abandonment of social justice and compassion for the disadvantaged.

Obviously it is not that government is good and private businesses are bad, nor is it simply that private businesses are good and government is bad.  Such oversimplistic conclusions are absurd.  And yet, this is pretty much what the far-left and far-right are thinking and saying.

Any reasonable political theory can therefore recognise that the potential for corruption and abuse will exist in any human institution, and is more of an indication of the lower potential of the human ego rather than indicative of the nature of the institution itself.

And yet, there will naturally be differences in the way that the lower side of the human ego expresses through a government as to how it expresses through a private enterprise.  That is, the horrors of a full-blown socialist (or communist) government are not by nature exactly the same as the horrors of a far-right political regime.  Therefore, as I see it, any reasonable political theory must seek to balance out competing narratives, competing perspectives.  Political theory must balance out communal power with individual power, social conscience with personal freedom etc.

Continuing down the same theme, there are often tensions felt between those who possess less material wealth and power than they need or desire, and those who are in an abundance of both.  This is often termed “class warfare”; clashes between the rich and the poor.  There are many examples to be found of wealthy people taking advantage of the poor, mistreating and even outright abusing the disadvantaged.  Furthermore, there are countless examples whereby wealthy people abandon any consideration of morals and ethics in their quest for wealth and power.  In modern times we can see how, blinded by greed, many have waged war against human, animal and plant life, and even the planet itself.

Hence, many have (I think, incorrectly) concluded that abandonment of morality is essential for the pursuit of material abundance.  This is a common theme in religious and philosophical works, with many obvious examples.  The New Testament is ripe with statements that condemn wealth and promote asceticism, and the Tao Te Ching speaks repeatedly against the abuses of the rich and powerful, just for two obvious examples.  Many spiritual seekers renounce all material possessions (some even going as far as renouncing their clothing!) in pursuit of spiritual perfection.  And of course, outside of religious contexts, there is often a great deal of jealousy and hatred projected against the wealthy by the poor.

And yet many of the wealthiest and most powerful people across history are in fact among the most inspirational, brilliant and generous of our species.  Through the persistence and grand vision of many who have gained great success, humanity as a whole is uplifted.  Many people gain exceptional wealth, power and success because they are exceptional human beings who rose above what was, dreamed big, worked hard and held faith in themselves.  Some of the greatest assistance to the poor is given by those who possess financial freedom, and work to inspire others to the same end.

At the other end of the scale, many people experience poverty as the results of war, famine, gross abuses of power and injustices (like slavery, tyrannical governments etc.), rigid hereditary class systems, or simple misfortune (injury, sickness, disease etc.).  Clearly we see many people living in poverty as being victims of the actions of others, the forces of nature or simple misfortune.

There are many people in positions of moderate or extreme wealth that despise the poor, seeing them as lazy, ignorant and immoral.  Whilst I of course do not support such conclusions, there are indeed many examples whereby people suffer as a result of their own poor choices.  Many people do indeed explicitly bring about their own poverty, their own disease and unhappiness.  Also, just as there is class snobbery from the upper classes towards the lower, the opposite is also true.  Often the poor snub the rich, the uneducated snub the educated, and the immoral snub the moral.

Of course it would be absurd to make oversimplistic conclusions such as wealthy people are immoral, or poor people all deserve to live in poverty.  Such conclusions are quite distasteful.  And yet, we need not look far to find examples which show that this is indeed how many people think.  These may be extremely crude examples, but they are real life examples.  This is how the human ego is capable of expressing itself.

Onto a different example, I have met (and know) many people that have been deeply wounded by people of the opposite sex, and have gone on to hold deep resentment – or even anger and hatred – towards the opposite sex.  The sad irony about this situation is that such people are often blind to the hypocrisy in their perspective, as they are themselves what they are accusing the other of.  This is again true in so many other fields of dispute, where people hold highly negative views of others, and yet cannot see the negativity in themselves that they project outwardly.

Obviously, it is not simply that women are good and men are bad, nor is the opposite true.  However, there are many men who hate women, and likewise, there are also many women who hate men.  This is a vicious cycle, as women who hate men are taken as the justification for men hating women, and vice versa.

What I am about to say requires a great deal of sensitivity, but it does nevertheless need to be said, and I will emphasise it here:

Often, self-identification as a victim leads an individual or group to make victims of others, projecting the role of oppressor onto others.

Now, if this triggers and/or offends you, please allow me to explain a little here.  It is important that we tread carefully here and take this slow.  Obviously, many, many people do have the experience of being victims of abuse and injustice.  I am not questioning this.  However, when someone – or a group of people – takes the experience and creates a self-image as a victim (i.e. “This is who I am, I am a victim” – “This is who we are – we are victims”), they often then start to color their perception and experience of the world with this belief.

Obviously, it should go without saying that not everyone who suffers at the hands of others then goes on to inflict suffering upon others in explicit ways.  I am not encouraging victim blaming or anything like that.  However, I am cautioning against taking on the self-image of a victim.  For people that suffer through extreme traumatic events this is often easier said than done.  This could obviously be quite infuriating when outsiders simply tell them not to take it on board.  It is always easier to solve personal problems as an outsider, than it is to solve them when you are intimately involved with them.

Having noted this, it should be said that many people (and groups of people) that commit great atrocities do so under the belief that they are the persecuted minority, and that they are simply seeking justice for past and present injustices.  As an extreme example, a large number of terrorists think this way.  The white nationalist terrorists who murdered 51 people (and injured another 49) in New Zealand on the 15th of March 2019 saw themselves as defenders of European civilization, at war with Islam.  Likewise, the Islamic terrorists that murdered 130 people in Paris on the 13th of November 2015 saw themselves as victims, fighting against the oppression of the Christian West.

Obviously though again, I am not suggesting that everyone who has suffered at the hands of another and has found themselves plagued by ongoing trauma is therefore a terrorist.  However, identification as a victim often leads to us making victims of others, and projecting the role of oppressor onto others, and then acting towards them as if we are at war and are simply defending ourselves.  Often this occurs in much more subtle ways than those listed above, in families or workplaces.

Sometimes we project a grossly oversimplistic lens onto a subject, which is by its very nature multi-faceted.  For example, let us ask the question whether Christians are generally persecuted for their religion, or are they generally the persecutors?  Obviously, the evidence shows that the correct answer is both.  That is, there is extensive evidence for both ends of the scale.  And yet, there are many people that will argue for only one end of the stick, compiling evidence for their case, and ignoring all the evidence that supports the opposite conclusion.  Hence, in this case the question itself is inadequate, and naturally skews the data.

I did not simply conclude that Christians are both persecuted and persecutors simply because I was unwilling to make my mind up.  Nor did I conclude it to try and please everybody.  I reached that conclusion because that is what the evidence shows, and I am not personally invested in either defending or attacking Christianity[ii].  And yet, I have repeatedly seen countless people approaching the subject of religious persecution with distinct bias and irreverence for the facts (and I plan on publishing an article on this subject alone at some point).

Likewise, we can say something similar about Islam (but again, not necessarily in exactly the same way, and to the same degree etc.).  That is, there are innumerable examples of Muslims both being persecuted and being the persecutor.  And yet, anyone with any degree of familiarity with public discussions about Islam should be able to attest that a large number of voices on the subject speak only for one side alone, as if it were a game of football and you simply had to pick a side.  I see comparatively few balanced discussions about Islam and religious persecution, and an abundance of one-sided opinions, on both sides.

Furthermore, discussions about Islam are some of the ugliest around, again from both sides.  It is very common for people (and groups of people) to shout down any discussion of the topic that doesn’t immediately confirm to their preconceptions.  Of course, when talking about subjects like religious violence and terrorism, persecution, bigotry and racism, these are naturally loaded topics.  And yet, we cannot expect to make progress unless we can hold more constructive discussions on important topics.

As a final example, let us ask the question whether conquered nations benefit from the culture of their conquerors?  Again, I think a little from column a), and a little from column b) is the correct answer here.  Certainly great injustices have occurred throughout the world as war has been waged, and powerful and developed nations have seized new territory.  And yet, powerful nations bring with them many advantages, through science, medicine and culture at large.

Again, we find that there are many polarised voices that only speak to one side of the equation.  I happen to know several white-nationalists, who by their very definition refuse to acknowledge the injustices committed by our European ancestors against the indigenous people in America, Australia, New Zealand (etc.).  And yet, there are also many voices on the far-left, which only speak of Western culture in negative terms, and rarely (if ever) mention the many advantages of Western civilisation.

Of course, one can (and should) both be grateful for our modern life and those that worked to develop all the things we take for granted, and yet also acknowledge the great injustices that our forefathers committed.  The two perspectives are not mutually exclusive.  It should be common sense that we can (and should) acknowledge both perspectives here and harmonise them into a bigger picture.  And yet, some people do not view it this way.

Again, this does not necessarily mean that both sides are equally correct or equally false, or that the truth lies necessarily exactly halfway between the two extreme views.  I am here suggesting that too often we make up our mind way to quick, and become stubborn and unmoving in holding to our preconceptions.  So often, more in-depth study is required to understand a subject properly.  Hence, it has often been said:

The wise recognise how little they know, whilst the foolish consider themselves wise.”

Ego compels us to define ourselves through fixed beliefs and association with large groups (i.e. political perspectives and parties, religious perspectives and institutions, sports teams, music genres, national and racial identity etc.) Psychological and spiritual evolution therefore involves expanding and even abandoning rigid self-concepts, seeing the freedom in being flexible and open. This doesn’t necessarily mean abandonment of all knowledge and institutions, but rather a releasing of the solidity and rigidity with which we define ourselves through them.

I would like to restate that I have given fairly blunt examples above, but the same conclusions also apply for subtler, everyday examples.  The same dynamics are at play in the interactions between partners, siblings, parents and children, friends and work colleagues etc. We can all grow through giving the benefit of the doubt to others, stopping to consider their perspective and question our own.

As stated earlier, we often see or experience something a certain way at one time, give it some thought and then see more evidence to support it.  Often our family, culture, media, government or religion teaches us a certain perspective, and then this conditioning taints our perception of the world.  We then start believing in it, and hold it to be true.

This is how many negative perspectives on life begin.  People then say: “Men are like this – women are like that, white people are all like this – black people are all like that, Christians are all like this – Atheists are all like that, “lefties” are all like this – conservatives are all like that” etc.  This is how all forms of bigotry begin.  To heal these aberrations we need to take a step back and put our conditioning aside, and consider multiple perspectives.

Whilst human beings do often over-complicate things, we also often over-simplify things, giving ourselves the illusion of certainty when in truth the reality is over our heads.  We live in a vast, vast world, and we experience only a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of a fraction (etc.) of reality.  I don’t say this to diminish the human race.  Rather, the vastness of reality should inspire deep awe within us, motivating us to evolve and move forward, rather than stubbornly justify how we are and have been.

Of course, as I have stated before, I am certainly no exception to the rule in what I have written here today.  Certainly, through my spiritual practice I have been blessed with the experience of an expansion of my sense of self. However, I am as human as anyone else.

Whilst we should acknowledge our feelings and find healthy expressions for them (rather than suppress them), we are capable of transcending the patterns of belief and behaviour that we accept as normal.  We have as yet no real idea of what we are truly capable of.  Whilst there are some that feel that what I am speaking here is unrealistic and creates unnecessary stress in aiming for unattainable ideals, I feel that to speak anything less would be doing a disservice.

Certainly we need to start where we are, and I am not suggesting or condoning a harsh attitude towards oneself or others for simply thinking and behaving in ways that are common for our race.  In fact, I am suggesting we all need to be far gentler on both others and ourselves.  However, we can approach all beings with love (including ourselves), whilst also seeking to call out the irrational beliefs that sustain bigotry and hold us back from realising our potential, both as individuals and as a species.  To aim for anything less would be setting the bar too low, which is generally self-fulfilling, as when you don’t know there is anything better you are less likely to strive for more.

May we speak the truth with love, be kind to all beings and seek out a greater perspective of life that accounts for all the experiences and perspectives in this vast, beautiful world.

Peace.


[i] For example, there are many passages in Yogic literature that discuss the need for multiple perspectives, both relative and absolute truths:

“Although Creation is discerned as not real for the one who has achieved the goal (liberation), it is yet real in that Creation remains the common experience to others.”  Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras, 2:22, circa 4th century CE or earlier.

[ii] Rather, I would argue that I seek to take a reasonable and balanced approach towards seeing both the positive and negative sides of Christianity.  I have a significant number of Christian friends and family, and I see a great number of them as inspirations, as examples of people living truly healthy, balanced lives.  I actually even listen to a lot of Christian music, and not just Christian rock and pop (some praise and worship as well, along with spiritual music from other cultures and New Age music).  I’ll talk more about this in a future article.

What is true remains true always – Comparative religion:

The above heading is a statement that has been made by many spiritual teachers, including Mooji (who I have accepted as my teacher). In this article I just wanted to talk about how this statement applies to the topic of comparative religion at large. That is, this isn’t so much an article about how to find the unchanging truth (and hence is not so much about spiritual instruction), but rather how we should approach topics of contention in light of this truth.

There is a natural tendency in human beings to seek to identify with ones beliefs, tendencies and preferences, possessions, role/s and the features of ones external and physical expression. That is, we naturally tend to seek to define ourselves by what we do and have done, what we like, what we own, what we look like etc. True spirituality however reveals a deeper place within us which is unchanging, unaffected by the flux of the world, unaltered by the dynamic flow of life. In this deeper place we find true, unchanging love and peace. Love that is infinite, without boundary, and unconditional, without reason. Living from this place is truly life changing, and I wish that all beings experience what I have been blessed to discover myself.

In the world of comparative religion we find that most human beings are quite attached to the outward form of the path through which they encounter divinity. That is, it is a natural tendency to be very attached mentally and emotionally to the stories (or myths) of our tradition of choice, the names and concepts we project onto divinity, the doctrines we hold about the nature of the self (or spirit/soul), the afterlife, divine justice, salvation or spiritual liberation, the text/s we hold to be sacred, the people we believe founded our particular path and the fine details of our spiritual practices which we may consider to differentiate them from the practices of other traditions etc.

To their credit, many people have found that they no longer seek to divide humanity into different groups, no longer seeking to define people as ‘other’ on the basis of such things. Hence, many people now wish to encourage an environment of harmony and tolerance, polite discourse and universalism. I myself obviously subscribe to the ideal of a Perennial Philosophy, a universal, timeless philosophy that is not the property of any one particular faith, culture, time or place, text or teacher.

I applaud those who have abandoned the idea of religious exclusivity and who attempt to further the ideal of a universal family, whereby all beings share the same ultimate nature and ultimate end, despite the vast diversity in our outward expressions. However, I believe that many people in giving up their attachment to the idea of one sacred path, one sacred text (or one specific collection of texts), one great teacher and one tradition of spiritual practices have now exchanged it for a new attachment to all sacred paths, all sacred texts, all religious teachers and all spiritual practices.

That is to say, many people with a universal approach to comparative religion are still deeply attached to the outward form of their spiritual search, only that they have (to their credit) transcended the egoic desire for competition and division, and found a deep sense of unity and desire for wholeness with all others.

What I wish to say here is that we can (and should) maintain this sense of unity and wholeness, whilst also letting go of our psychological attachments to the outward forms of the worlds religions. Please take note that I am not saying that we should all abandon our formal religious and/or spiritual paths, and be spiritual nomads with no history. Rather, what I am saying is that we should release our psychological attachments to the outward forms through which we experience that which has no form.

I should not have to explain why it is important that we let go of attachments to the outwards forms of religion. As it stands, religion is a mixed bag, like a poison apple. Love and hate, peace and violence, truth and superstition, hope and fear, joy and pain, harmony and division. It need not be this way. We do not accept such a dual reality in any science, nor should we accept it spirituality. We do not expect scientists to tell us lies alongside truths about the workings of particles, molecules, cells, fibres etc. Nor should we accept it in religion. Religion need not be this convoluted mess; this isn’t an irresolvable conundrum. It is imperative that we clean up the religious landscape, for the wellbeing of all existance.

If we find ourselves deeply touched by a spiritual text that is wonderful, and we should indeed continue to read such texts. However, we should be careful about ascribing divinity and perfection to religious books, even when they can serve as a medium to put us into contact with that which is divine and perfect. Again, we should be extremely careful about ascribing divinity and perfection to the outward form and expression of teachers who can indeed put us into direct contact with that which is divine and perfect.

There are countless examples of religious texts which have brought genuine religious ecstasy to countless beings, despite the aberrations also found within these texts. That is, despite the violence, injustice and superstitions contained in so many of the worlds religious texts, these texts can still bring us into resonance with divine love and peace. Religious texts are commonly of a dual nature; divine truths intermingled with human egoic projections. As such, different people can find different things in the same text. There is vast range of possibilities within creation.

The ego is capable of virtually limitless aberrations. Likewise however, the Spirit is always there underneath, radiating limitless love and peace. Hence, we can find through these texts a reflection of that which we seek. The mistake we so commonly make is to try and excuse the flaws of religious texts, to think that just because we feel deep love whilst reading a text that the words on the pages are a perfection expression of that love. There are however many spiritual texts which are free from the projections of the lower side of human potential, and I would like to challenge my readers to seek out such texts (many of which have been written in recent years by those who seek to differentiate true spirituality from traditional religious paths), and to read the worlds sacred texts with an acceptance of the complexity and dual nature of such books.

Likewise, there are many examples of spiritual teachers who have led countless beings into genuine experiences of divinity, despite the aberrations in their own behaviour. Never is this truer than in the traditions I have been drawn to, that being in Indian spirituality. So many yogis and gurus have brought shame upon their tradition, believing themselves to be so enlightened that their actions were above reproach, above criticism, and that their abuses could be brushed off as mere eccentricity. Strangely enough, some people may even find glimpses of divinity from the ranting’s of deluded madmen and conniving conmen. I would suggest many of these gurus are (or were) indeed in an experience of deep transcendent perfection, even when their outward personality is deeply imperfect.

Rare are those beings who manage to fully surrender their personality to the perfection within, who truly change their external nature to be in harmony with the eternal. The mistake that has been made by so many of us is that we think that if someone helps us to encounter God, that they must be a perfect representation of what God is in the flesh. We so often think that if a spiritual teacher can lead us directly into divine love and peace that they must be perfect, that we must defend them from every critique. Likewise, so many people feel that if they can have genuine supernatural experiences through their belief and/or worship of a religious figure, that this means that the figure in question must have either really walked on this earth in the past, or must have some tangible external reality in the heavens (beyond that of human projections).

It should be quite clear that experiencing divine love and peace is not dependent upon a perfect outward form. This applies equally to people, texts, doctrines and practices. Any in-depth consideration of comparative religion and spirituality, philosophy and the paranormal should reveal that human beings can experience their own projections coming back to them in a spiritual form. It appears that belief in an idea can create an astral form that then can appear to us like a divine reality. Hence, it is wise to be careful about what we hold to be true. That is, slow to accept something as being absolutely true, but willing to be open to new ideas and alternative explanations.

So, what is true remains true always, regardless of whether any particular religious text is historically true or not. What is true remains true whether or not any particular religious teacher, prophet, sage, avatar or so forth actually walked on this planet, and whether or not they were truly divine, or truly enlightened. What is true remains true whether or not any particular spiritual tradition is free from aberrations, free from false doctrines and conceptions or not.

Divine grace is not offered only to those who resolve the myriad of competing beliefs and doctrines in the vast, complex world of comparative religion. Divine grace is offered to all, and is always only a moment away. All the love and peace we could ever want is right here, and ironically, when we abandon our attachments to all things – including those things we hold sacred – we can discover the timeless here and now.

Higher beings are not waiting for us to achieve perfection first before showering their grace upon us. They are not waiting for us to work out exactly how to express divinity in human form, or what are the best religious texts, practices and traditions, or what exactly was the earliest conception of a religious figure or deity before accepting our prayers. Love is here right now for all of us, regardless of the apparent flaws in our outward nature. Perfection is there, stillness, true lasting peace and bliss. Having found this in our hearts, let us open our minds and release our attachments to human ideas and concepts, becoming open again and willing to take on new understanding.

Having found this, let us discuss the world of ideas, the world of forms, the world of beliefs, doctrines, practices etc. without attachment. Let us be willing to see the strengths and weaknesses of the world’s traditions as they are, not as we wish they were. Let us accept that people can find love for religious figures that didn’t actually walk on this planet, never actually incarnated and descended from the heavens. Let us accept that people can still find divine love within traditions that have perpetuated violence, fear, injustice and superstition through imposing their doctrines and texts upon various cultures as being divinely appointed. Let us separate the wheat from the chaff with respect. Let us be willing to have our bubbles burst, in the knowledge that outside our safe-haven of attachments there is true freedom, true peace. Let us be willing to encourage others to burst their bubbles with love, not out of any egoic desire to be intellectually superior, but out of a desire for all beings to experience true freedom.

May all beings in all the realms find peace.

Ego identity and football:

Roughly six months ago I was having dinner with friends and discussing politics, and a mate of mine made an observation in response to some of my own thoughts about the rise of political far-right. Politics isn’t football.

I live in Victoria, Australia. We have rugby and soccer like most other countries, but we also have our own form of football: Aussie rules. I like Aussie rules football, it’s a great game. I enjoyed playing it at school, and I still enjoy a kick of the footy with friends. I don’t necessarily always like the culture that goes with it though.

I understand that for many people, that statement is tantamount to blasphemy. A significant percentage of men and women in this country live and breathe football. That is, they don’t merely appreciate the game, but rather they are totally consumed by it. Football fans of all ages often get quite obsessed with their team, and allow their emotions to be controlled by the results of the latest game. That is, grown men (and women) get angry and upset when their team loses, and can even sulk for days (or weeks) after a loss. Grown men and women scream obscenities at the players (on both sides), umpires and supporters of other teams. And of course, excessive alcohol consumption only makes this worse.

All forms of football are quite physical, and by very nature players come into physical contact with other players. Whilst players accept this, it is common for it to be taken too far, contact becomes excessive, and those on the receiving end resort to knee-jerk reactions, and brawls are the result. Fortunately, Aussie rules football fans don’t generally riot, as do soccer fans worldwide (or Ice Hockey fans in the US). So perhaps then, in this respect they are relatively restraint.

Anyways, the point is that sports fans often allow their emotions to be controlled by events that are completely beyond their control. A victory brings on a euphoric high, and a loss brings a gut-wrenching low. Whilst I admire the skill, fitness and intelligence required to play the game well, football players themselves sometimes get overtaken by an inflated image of themselves, or take on an overtly harsh personality as a result. It is good to be strong, but power and strength can have both positive and negative manifestation.

All this being so, this is not what this article is about. Rather, the reason I am writing this article is to show that life is not like football. Most football fans choose a football team to support, and then they give themselves over completely to that team. They become one-eyed, they develop narrow vision (or tunnel vision). They support their team regardless of what happens, and they consider other teams to be their enemies. They write a blank cheque to their team, and will honor it no matter what. There are of course many people that might take a more sensible, moderate approach to football. Such people may enjoy the game with a smile regardless of the outcome, appreciate and respect players of various teams, and recognize the relative strengths and weaknesses of all teams (including their own). Likewise, not all players (and other people closely associated with the game) make football part of their artificial identity – their ego. So, when I talk about football culture and the ego, I don’t mean to say that everyone who plays or enjoys the game is the same. However, the fact remains that football culture is saturated by ego.

Many people that are passionate about religion and politics display similar tendencies and behaviour to that of hardcore, one-eyed football fans. That is, many people (particularly those we would term conservatives), approach religion, politics, national identity and so forth as if they were football. That is, they choose a team (for whatever reason), and they write a blank check to their team to do anything, and they will always take their side.

But life isn’t football.

At least, it isn’t like how many people view football. Complex and important topics naturally demand a more complex, nuanced approach. Questions of how we view life as a whole, how one chooses to live, how you choose to treat others, how you sort through the myriad of competing views about the nature of humanity and the cosmos, and how best should a nation govern and regulate behaviour, resources and finances, naturally demand a sensible, objective and well-considered approach.

Complex subjects frequently demand that we weigh up opposing interests and find a sensible middle-ground. It is true that – as my brother David frequently says -, “Truth isn’t necessarily always found halfway between two opposing views”. That is, there are some areas of debate in which one side may be completely correct, and the other completely wrong. However, whilst truth isn’t always found somewhere in the middle between polar opposites, it often is! That is, most commonly, in most areas of division and dichotomy, a reasonable and informed opinion finds itself flanked on all sides by more extreme, unbalanced views.

Those that simply choose a team and identify with it may feel a sense of inflated ego as a result. That is, they feel superior because they believe they are on the right team. They feel justified when they demonize those that differ from themselves. They overlook the flaws of their own team, and refuse to acknowledge the strengths of their opponents. They are however holding on to a false sense of self, and they refuse to see the whole as it is. If you place your happiness upon the foundation of a false identity, it has a precarious existence. You will feel threatened by any challenge, as if your own being was at stake, and will react emotionally, without balance and depth.

From where I am standing, the commentary given by people that treat politics and religion like football has little value, as sorting out the half-truths from their bias is often so difficult, you are better off to start from scratch. It is necessary for reasonable and intelligent people to sort through the maze of opinions out there and offer a true alternative. We must however be careful not to be drawn into reactivity to the ego in others. That is, it is often hard not to react in kind towards inflammatory remarks made by others. We must have the courage to face up to what is not true, whilst holding in our hearts what is true.

Peace.